a bit about me,
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Posted:Dec 23, 2018 10:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 3:38 pm 1199 Views
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hmmm what to say? Hahahaha,, nahhh I got a plan of sorts, well sorta, in way.
I was going to post a bit about me and my process in finding a sub/slave, a little of my reasoning too.
Im a pretty laid back person, I like to have fun, laugh, I have a list of hobbies and interests that is sickening long, if it exists I prolly have an interests in it, have done it, or studied it enough to know I dont want to know any more about it. I like to travel, explore, hike, learn new things, do new things, and I love people that can carry a conversation, that have ambitions, goals, and are just in general good people to be around. I want to learn to scuba dive, learn to cook better, prolly sky dive, I have ideas for tats that I just havent gotten around to getting yet lol, its all about location location location lol.
I like to go to the local races, monster truck shows, I am a gamer tho that does not occupy my life, I love storms thunder and lightening, looking at the stars and meteor showers. Way more then this, but hey its a start lol.
Everyone does things diff, it doesnt matter if you have been a dom/sub for all your life or not, when you find a new partner its going to be diff every time lol, dont argue its just true. I go about things in my own ways I suppose, I know the things im looking for. How I go about finding out if your the one, lots of things come into play right off the bat. Am I attracted to you? do we have similar goals and kinks? is your profile something that interests me? do you interest me as a person? We dont have to have all the same hobbies and interests or even kinks, but we do need to have enough things about each other that says something can work. I like to chat, I want to get to know you, that does not always mean talking about sex and kinks right from the get go, maybe I want to know about you, your work, how your day was, maybe I want to hear the same stuff for a few weeks. Why? Cus I want to know you, what makes you tick, what are you really like, I dont want to travel halfway around the world, or even a few hundred miles to meet someone that I know i will not get along with in person. Whats the point in that? Im looking for a ltr, and while a tpe is nice, that does not mean it is always on, that everything is sooooo strict and boring that a person cannot be the person that they are. That would ruin why I liked you in the first place, I would loose the best part of the person im looking at.
Attraction is easy, its either im attracted to you or not, kinks are pretty simple too, we do them, we’re interested in trying them, or we dont do them, see simple. But getting to know the person, do we like them, are they interesting, do we find them amazing and I mean all of them, everything that makes them, well them. That takes time, and well I have time to be picky about who im looking at, and for. Endless emails lol, yes, because I want to know if your off kicking dogs when no-ones looking, or if your picking flowers cus they are pretty. You might have hobbies that ive never thought about or knew of, maybe id be interested in learning them. Its all about the learning process, and I hope that the people I chat with, can understand its about finding the right one, the last one, and the one that is perfect for us both.
Ha I knew I had a plan their, or not, prolly more of a rambling thing than anything, but I did want to see if anyone reads blogs and if anyone would actually comment on this mess I just wrote hahahaha. Merry Christmas everyone.
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