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How to slap the bitch out of that pussy
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Posted:Sep 22, 2023 7:15 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:10 pm 5901 Views
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1. Oil her up. Use a water based lubricant if you're going to be using additional toys. If not - go old school - and pull out that bottle of baby oil. Don't be stingy either, hands slipping and sliding around the clit and the vulva and the sharp sound of palm on pussy all add to that intense orgasm.
2. Make sure you cover the whole pussy, from the top of the crack down to her asshole. If you want to do some ass whipping as well, make sure you cover her buttocks as well. The oil increases the sound of the slap, or the instrument you both like. However if your partner prefers that hot stinging sensation on her ass, do not lubricate it.
And if she doesn't like being spanked at all, avoid the bottom or she will abandon the whole sex session. However, the good news is that many women who don't like to be spanked on the bottom, will gladly and enthusiastically take a spanking on the pussy. Different nerve endings sending a different message to her brain.
3. Let the fun begin. Gently rub the oil or lube all over her pussy. Caress her clit, make sure it knows it's gonna see some action by flicking it right on the tip. Give her a taste of what's cumming.
4. Now rub her firmly, all the way from top to bottom. Stimulate all the nerve endings. At this point she knows what's coming, so this is a tease.
5. Start slapping. Work your way up the slap scale by beginning at one which is a gentle pat. Once you're patting that pussy she should start to move her hips and lift them to your hand. This is the signal to up the ante.
6. Watch her body as you slap harder, keep up the rhythm. Not too fast but not slow either. About a slap a second is a good pace. The more she thrusts her hips and arches her back, the faster and harder she wants you to slap.
7. You'll know you hit the sweet spot when she freezes back arched and hips thrust forward. She's at the edge now and you can go for it. Bring your pace and power to ten on the slap scale and don't stop until she suddenly drops back with her legs closed. The intensity of the orgasm(s) will ensure that this will be her reaction because the whole genital area is super sensitive after orgasm.
8. If you are charming and you want a taste, now is the time to convince her that a soft caress with your tongue is what she really needs. Enjoy a good pussy eating while she recovers.
9. When you've eaten your fill, she should be back to moaning and twitching for more. Give her some more. Give her the whole thing.
10. End off by inserting your cock and listening to her scream as you pound those super sensitive nerve endings. Try to give her a good pounding inside. This means you may have to recite the alphabet backwards but remember, she has faith in you to pound her like only you can.
11. Accept her gifts to you graciously, whether she brings you a beer, goes for pizza or rims your asshole. All gifts stemming from a great pussy slapping should be accepted with gratitude.
12. Do it right and this could be the first step to phenomenal sex. And it only takes five to seven minutes. And you can then be in a better bargaining position for five to seven minutes of cock foreplay. Just don't ruin it by cumming.
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Nipple and Breast Torture Tips
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Posted:Sep 18, 2023 3:31 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:10 pm 5898 Views
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Use What’s on Hand
You don’t need anything at all but your hands. Squeezing, pinching, caressing, poking and tickling. You can vary your grip and the intensity of your touch easily with your hands, and then you get to enjoy the tactile thrill of touching her breasts, or she your nipples.
Lip Service
And of course, your mouth—lips, tongue and teeth are made for sensual play, again with a built in array of sensations and intensities available.
A Trip to the Hardware Store
If you like heavy duty breast and nipple torture, get creative with the array of industrial strength sensations around the corner.
Fine and feathery paintbrushes to start things off before thick bristly ones. Clothespins. Rope and wire for binding the nipple or breast. Spatulas and wooden spoons for spanking.
Kinky Supplies
An array of wonderful kinky fetish toys bring hardcore nipple stimulation and breast torture to a new level.
The Snake Bite Kit is perfect for varying sensations, or wearing a sucking sensation for a long time during other play.
These magnetic nipple balls are super fun—instead of a traditional clamp, the magnet pulls the two balls together and they can be rolled for switching up the stimulation. They can be warmed or cooled before applying to breasts. The sensations range from mild to painful.
You can’t beat a classic nipple clamp, especially with weights. The Barrel Nipple Clamp is perfect
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Fingering a vulva owner
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Posted:Sep 16, 2023 4:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 4:55 pm 6743 Views
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What Is Fingering?
Fingering is a sexual act that involves a person stimulating their partner’s vagina, or vulva, which is the area around the vagina. Fingering is an act of giving or receiving sexual pleasure that can be an act of foreplay leading up to sex, or a sexual act unto itself. Fingering doesn’t carry the risk of pregnancy, and it carries a very low risk of STI transmission.
What Is a Vulva?
A vulva is the outer part of a vagina. When you’re fingering a vulva owner, it’s important to know their anatomy. Here are the parts to know:
Mons Pubis: This is the pubic mound area below the stomach, often covered with pubic hair leading down to the external parts of the vulva.
Clitoral Hood: At the very top of the vulva is the clitoral hood, which covers the clitoris.
Clitoris: The clitoris itself consists of a shaft (root) and glans (tip) as well as crura, internal "legs" that extend from the base of the shaft down to the vaginal opening. When a vulva owner is aroused, their clitoris becomes swollen. The clitoris contains more nerve endings than any other human body part, making it a source of extreme pleasure and sensitivity.
Labia: The inner labia (labia minora) and outer labia (labia majora) are folds of skin or "lips" that run the length of the vulva, from the clitoris to the vaginal opening.
Urethral opening: This is located beneath the clitoris, and is where the urethra is located.
Vaginal opening: The vaginal opening leads to the vagina, an internal tube that connects the vulva to the uterus. Separating the vagina from the uterus is the cervix.
7 Tips For Fingering Someone With a Vulva
If your partner has a vulva, using your fingers is one of the best ways to stimulate them. Here are some simple steps that will help you to key into your partner’s pleasure.
1. Wash your hands. Make sure to wash your hands prior to touching your partner’s vulva, to avoid exposing them to any bacteria you may have accumulated on your hands throughout the day.
2. Warm up with foreplay. Foreplay—like making out, dry humping, or massaging—will build up anticipation and allow your partner time to become fully aroused, making fingering much more pleasurable. It can take about 20 to 45 minutes for your partner to become fully aroused. When you're ready, make sure your hands are warm. Start by stroking the inner thighs and applying light pressure to the mons pubis before exploring the vulva.
3. Use lube. Lube can make almost any sexual activity more pleasurable, including fingering. Many vaginas secrete their own fluids that can be used as lubrication, but your partner probably won't be fully lubricated right away. Use your hands to gently apply lube to all the parts of the vulva. Keep things juicy by applying more lube as needed.
4. Get to know the clitoris. Start off with indirect stimulation, using an up-and-down motion to slowly rub the area between the outer and inner labia, then move up to the clitoral hood. Flatten your index and middle fingers, then move them together in a circular or side-to-side motion. Some people like direct stimulation of the glans (or nub) of the clitoris, while others find it too intense, so it's always a good idea to start with slow, indirect clitoral stimulation.
5. Explore the G-area. The G-area, also known as the G-spot, is located a few inches inside the vagina, on the front wall (belly button side). This area swells when your partner is aroused, so wait to start G-spot stimulation until after clitoral stimulation. To stimulate the G-area, lubricate your index finger, then, with your palm facing up, slowly insert your finger into the vagina, about one to two inches deep. Curl your finger in a come-hither motion, looking for a ridged or wrinkly area. Once you've found an angle and rhythm that works for your partner, you can reincorporate clitoral stimulation using your other hand, a sex toy such as a bullet vibrator, or your mouth.
6. Add the anus. Don't limit yourself to the vulva and the vagina. Try stimulating the anus and perineum (area between the vagina and anus) if your partner is open to it. Start by applying lube to the perineum, then circle the anus with your lubricated finger. Your partner may eventually want the tip of your finger inside their anus, or more, or they may prefer you to stay on the outside of the anus while stimulating their vulva.
7. Check in regularly with your partner. Every person finds different things pleasurable, and different fingering techniques will work better for different partners. Make sure to regularly check in with your partner to make sure that what you’re doing feels good for them.
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BDSM VS ABUSE
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Posted:Sep 15, 2023 4:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2023 4:43 am 5392 Views
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Let’s compare and contrast consensual kink and abuse:
Kink: Using body/mental sensations such as pain, pleasure, humiliation and love to elicit pleasure and release.
Abuse: Causing physical and/or mental/emotional harm to another person.
Kink: Consensual power exchange where both partners negotiate and agree, empowering themselves within an agreed-upon framework.
Abuse: Takes away power from one partner.
Kink: Actions and relationships are communicated, negotiated, and agreed to.
Abuse: There is no agreement to when/how it will happen, and there is no consent to it happening.
Kink: Creates excitement in each partner for the other.
Abuse: Creates fear of one partner for another.
Kink: Fosters and builds trust.
Abuse: Destroys trust.
Kink: Intended to fulfill the desires and needs of all involved within a safe environment.
Abuse: Focuses on the needs and desire of just one, creating a cruel and possibly violent environment for the other.
Kink: Communication and support create an environment where it’s safe to talk about wants, needs, thoughts, and emotions.
Abuse: No support. Communication is usually one-sided (if it happens at all), and wants, needs, thoughts, and emotions are not safe.
Maybe you think you’re kinky (or know you are), and those contrasts are resonating with you.
Maybe, though, you’re reading this because you want to understand a friend or loved one’s kink more, and really, it just still seems pretty abusive to you.
It ought to be OK to take their word that they want this, but are there ways you can be sure?
Honestly, not really. Well, not unless it’s over time.
However, there are some clues that might help, especially with the physical play and marks that can seem so scary:
There are no defense wounds. People in abusive situations will often raise their hands/arms to protect their face, and will have secondary wounds from the impact. People in kink welcome their play. There are exceptions where, for example, primal or rough body play engages the whole body. Listen for words like that when you ask after their well-being.
Concentration of “damage.” Kink can often leave some pretty scary marks, especially from paddles, “evil sticks,” whips, canes, etc. However, they are usually fairly concentrated in specific areas: buttocks, thighs, back, breasts, and genitals. Rarely will you see random areas or very public spots like the face touched in kink, except (again) in primal/rough body play.
Kinky toys. While kink can be performed with pretty much anything (there are entire groups devoted to “pervertibles,” or everyday objects you can use to make people feel something in kink—like wooden spoons, wood clamps, even tinsel), most kinky people will have at least a small collection of toys, like handcuffs, floggers, paddles, gags, etc.
Language. Kinky people have very specific language around what we do. We use the term “marks” instead of “wounds” or “scars.” “Power exchange” or “D/s” to refer to relationship dynamics. They might mention SSC, RACK or PRICK. And so on. Consent will be mentioned. A LOT.
Pride/defiance, instead of fear. Not only will kinky people mention consent, but if you question us, we will often get downright offended that you don’t think we’re telling the truth, or that we don’t have a right to choose how to use our bodies with partners for our own pleasure and fulfillment.
HARD TRUTH: You cannot be sure.
People CAN be both kinky and abusive.
To say otherwise would be lying.
And people can THINK they are in a consensual kinky relationship, then suddenly one day realize they were lied to and emotionally abused into consenting.
That’s a part of life.
Nothing is ever ONLY good, including kink.
But if the kinky person is your friend or loved one, you may just have to take their word for it, and support and love them as hard as you can, even if you don’t understand.
Because that is how you will keep the relationship, and if, ever, anything turns out to go wrong (even if it’s not abuse, but just a relationship meltdown), that’s how you will be there to help them pick up and move on.
Bottom line is…
Kink is many things to many people: exciting, scary, overwhelming, exhausting, breathtaking, and more.
It should always be consensual, with everyone involved feeling like they are supported in communication and realization of their needs and desires and that they may opt-out (with no negative repercussions) at any time.
Without that feeling, it’s abuse.
It may ALSO be kinky. But being kinky does not in any way make abuse OK.
What are your thoughts?
Of course, there might be times when one or a couple of these apply to even non-abusive relationships.
And times when abusive relationships seem to have some of these markers as well.
There is no hard-and-fast rule to judge a relationship, except to take it as a whole, and weigh everything out. Even therapists I talk to (who are kink-aware and kink-friendly) say this.
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