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is it time to just give up?
Posted:Aug 10, 2022 2:23 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2023 7:55 am
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just a question I ask myself.
I have a better chance finding gold in a random spot in the ocean than I do finding alady
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another scammer
Posted:Aug 6, 2022 6:56 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 1:9 pm
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Hello good day,Am so much interested in your profile,My name is Fanny I am a real submissive female slave, who is very healthy, honest, trustworthy, respectful, sincere, considerate, compassionate, sensitive, kind, gentle, patient, caring, giving, loving, easy-going, out-going, open-minded, free-spirited, fun-loving, humorous, intelligent, articulate, genuine, confident, passive, thoughtful, spontaneous, creative, imaginative, accommodating, attentive, adventuresome, romantic, affectionate, sexy, sexual, I am so much interested in getting to know you kindly get back to me here so that we can talk and share some pictures together
8/4/2022 12:45 pm.

1st. I am not a dpm
2nd, grammatcal syntax is wrong
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hello fake
Posted:Jul 16, 2022 5:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 1:9 pm
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So many fake Dommes here. for example the 32 year old with 25 years experience, She is a mighty femdom don't know.
before long i would no choice but succump her superior training. puleese man from kenya. i know you are seeking for but if you knew how my people talk, you would see how silly you are with our fake pictre and profile
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todays special email I received
Posted:Feb 22, 2020 11:43 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2022 2:17 pm
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Lady expressed interest. she wants a long term relationship with a submissive man.
she would be happy to make sure i am trained properly to become obedient to her in all things. She is however inexperienced and would be happy for another adominant woman to train me her..
response was.
Thank you so much your interest. I do not believe we are a match. It is true i have strong submissive tendencies, training in view does not happen that way.
I look a woman that not only understands me but understands herself. A woman should in opinion be capable of training her boy. although inexperience ishould not be an obstacle to train your own sub man is. We are not that one can send to obedience school.
A submissive man understands he needs training and needs one lady he deems special to train him. A sub man needs the structure that a dominant woman provides as a dominant woman needs a man that will cater to her. A man cedes authority of the relationship to her and trust her judgement. Yes being trained to her needs, obedience to her and her authority to discipline or punish as she sees fit. this is his gift to her and she being the woman he needs is hers to him.
While bdsm is a focus many a true D/s F/m is focus. A real 24/7 TPE makes the cement that holds a relationship together.
I think there are other men open to your proposal, it is not me.
Good luck in you search and thank you your interest
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todays special email I received
Posted:Feb 22, 2020 11:43 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2022 4:36 pm
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Lady expressed interest. she ants a long term relationship with a submissive man.
she would be happy to make sure i am trained properly to become obedient to her in all things. She is however inexperienced and would be happy to a dominant woman to train me her..
response was.
Thank you so much your interest. I do not believe we are a match. It is true i have strong submissive tendencies, training in view does not happen that way.
I look a woman that not only understands me but understands herself. A woman should in opinion be capable of training her boy. although inexperience is not nor should it be an issue an unwillingness to train your own sub man is. We are not that one can send to obedience school.
A submissive man understands he needs training and needs one lady he deems special to train him. A sub man needs the structure that a dominant woman provides as a dominant woman needs a man that will cater to her. A man cedes authority of the relationship to her and trust her judgement. Yes being trained to her needs, obedience to her and her authority to discipline or punish as she sees fit. this is his gift to her and she being the woman he needs is hers to him.
While bdsm is a focus many a true D/s F/m is focus. A real 24/7 TPE makes the cement that holds a relationship together.
I think there are other men open to your proposal, it is not me.
Good luck in you search and thank you your interest
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Female Supremacy
Posted:Feb 12, 2020 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 1:9 pm
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One can argue from a scientific point of view women are the superior sex.
They are the only sex that can grow and foster life. Without women humanity would become extinct. It is also a phenomenon of the female brain that a woman is the only sex in the human species that can multitask. Men appear to multitask but the reality is we can do multiple task but one at a time. the male brain finds it difficult to unfocus on each task. this does not make the female brain better just more efficient. why are our brains different? genetics and evolution. Primitive man hunted dangerous animals for food. If he could not stay focused on that task he could get severely injured or killed. the woman ran the villages and raised the next generation. they made all tribal decisions. Although both brains worked different each had a purpose to insure human survival.
In today's modern world women are taking back their rightful place in humanities hierarchy. Many are better educated then men and more devoted to careers. They can juggle careers and their relationships multitasking is their genetic birth-right.
men re still genetically designed to hunt, provide and do the heavy lifting. Women to be more decision oriented.
Are all women superior. the answer is no. that said all women have strong dominant tendencies. they either answer that call or not. societal norms and constraints are sometimes bulwarks in a woman's nature and genetic design.
All men and i mean all have strong submissive tendencies.yes some men are dominant but those tendencies still exist. When dominant men are confronted by dominant women, they run to preserve what society expects of them or they fall quickly in line with the woman's expectations.
For me female supremacy exist. Any relationship I am in she is my queen leader and ruler
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emails
Posted:Feb 11, 2020 7:07 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2022 12:45 pm
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It amazes all of the messages I get from alleged women in their 20s and 30s, hundreds of miles away. telling me they are a mighty mistress or mistress of my dreams.
One has and age listed as 31 yet in the email claims have 25 experience. Oh brother. be in my town at that exact moment. what are the chances.
Some message me from real far and claim
I am sure some desperate men and women fall for these scams. I hope all real persons here are careful.

It is simple for me . i am interested in a seasoned woman. By seasoned I mean mature 50 or older. One who is real and looking for a true Ds F/m dynamic.
A woman's beauty is drawn from here character, mind and honesty.
I am not looking for perfection as it does not exist. I am looking for that real connection.
If you are looking for a true D/s dynamic and not just BDSM, You will find this man can be the one you are looking for. For the of us be in this dynamic we both need be engaged. Yes like any relationship it is an on going project.
if you are dominant and understand this lifestyle requires you be the architect building this relationship. Sub men don't just obey we need dominance and respect your strength. True sub men will surrender their bodies but it is more important you take his mental and emotional submission. If a dominant woman does not take what is offered then what good is submission
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respect
Posted:Feb 7, 2020 7:28 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 1:9 pm
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I have met many people in my life. we are all different yet the same. Respect is essential. respect allows us to get along even though we are different. respect allows relationships to thrive. Respect allows societies to grow.
Allowing me to be me without judgment or placing values on it, allows you to be free in who you are.
When persons have feelings , thoughts or ideals out of the mainstream norms, It just means we are different not less valuable
may you all embrace you and your uniqueness
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about me
Posted:Feb 6, 2020 8:52 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 1:9 pm
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Kink is not my driving force. Just because a man bottoms in kink or sex does not make him submissive.
Just because a man identifies as submissive does not mean he is submissive to everyone.

I am submissive in a relationship and to the woman in my life. Submission encompasses all things. I will obey her in and out of the bedroom. She is my Queen , My goddess not because she identifies as dominant, because she is and deserves that respect. She deserves my submission , adoration and devotion.

As a dominant lady her empowerment is real to me, i will love her, obey her, dread her disappointment . I will accept her judgment and needs. i will accept and relish her training and tutelage. Our goal is to please her and satisfy her needs without regard to mine. why would a man do this because i trust in her that she got me, she understands me and she does not judge me. We accept each other and work towards a common goal , happiness
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FLR studies
Posted:Feb 6, 2020 8:23 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2021 6:27 am
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68% of relationships that start as FLR survive long term
68% pecent of traditional relationships fail
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