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Slave? Sub? Pet?
Posted:Feb 19, 2024 10:28 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2024 7:35 pm
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Alright, let's break it down:

"Slave" is a person who has surrendered their personal property and freedoms to another, who has become the property or chattel of their owner.

"Submissive" is more like a group of folks who are cool with giving up some control in their relationships.

And then there's "Pet" – it is something like a slave in training.

Now, about how these roles can change in a BDSM relationship over time – it's a pretty interesting topic! Can someone start off as a sub and end up feeling more like a pet? I think it is totally possible! Relationships grow and change, and so do the dynamics within them.

For example, a sub (like me) might find themselves enjoying aspects of pet play, getting into character and receiving extra care from their master. Or maybe a slave starts feeling more comfortable expressing their desires and boundaries, blurring the lines a bit between submission and something else.

The key here is communication and trust.

Have you ever explored different roles within your relationships, BDSM or otherwise, and how did those experiences shape your understanding of yourself and your connections with others?
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Are women conditioned to be submissive?
Posted:Sep 25, 2023 9:32 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2024 10:41 pm
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In my case, from the first time my cousin touched my pussy when I was very young, I remember I didn't move, I just let him touch me. Three years after that, while I was doing social work at a radio station, the radio assistant touched me every time he had the opportunity and I was so quite, I was very young.

On one occasion there was no one at the station, just him and me. He took me to the bathroom, took out his dick and put it in my mouth. I had never seen or touched a dick, much less sucked one, I didn't know how to do it. I remember I grazed him with my teeth and he slapped me. He cum in my mouth and he wouldn't let me take it out of my mouth and he just told me "swallow, swallow".

After a few weeks I had my first sex in my life with him. I was with him for 4 years, he always controlled me in all aspects but always with great care because I was not of legal age.

I think in my case I was somewhat submissive from a very young age and that, along with the fact that my first man was so dominant, strengthened my submissive role.

So a submissive is born or made? What do you think?
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What are the first signs that a female is sub?
Posted:Sep 11, 2023 3:13 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2024 10:41 pm
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I'm curious, can you as a man know if a woman is sub at first sight?
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Can Lactation Be Induced?
Posted:Sep 7, 2023 9:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2023 1:50 pm
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There are several ways to induce lactation, including herbs and mechanical stimulation without being pregnant.

I am stimulating my udders every 4 hours with a very powerful electric breast pump (it sucks very hard).

Let's see what happens in the next few weeks!
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