Why Does Your Girlfriend Only Achieve Orgasm When She's Tied Up.
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Posted:Jun 7, 2023 11:19 am
Last Updated:Jun 8, 2023 12:01 pm 6731 Views
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My girlfriend is anything but submissive, yet she only achieves orgasm through bondage. Are you dominant in bed? Once an adult is handcuffed and restrained the other party becomes, by default, the dominant one. You say that outside of the bedroom your girlfriend is "anything but submissive".
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Politicians Attack Alternative Lifestyles
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Posted:Jun 5, 2023 4:52 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2023 6:28 am 6563 Views
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Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signed into law a bill that bans gender-affirming medical care such as puberty blockers or hormone therapy for transgender youth, and also enacts obstacles for adults to access treatment. Taking effect in the third most populous U.S. state, the law escalates a Republican political strategy to pursue bills restricting transgender rights.
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So, you want to be a submissive or slave (reply)
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Posted:Jun 4, 2023 1:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2023 3:59 pm 7210 Views
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The reality is, you don’t know nearly enough to just find a Dominant and jump right into a dynamic.
The reality is Ron, you don't know what anyone reading your blog knows. The truth is, there is no correlation between BDSM and abuse. Submission of a man or woman is a conscious decision to pleasure their partner. How someone becomes submissive? Submission is a behavioral pattern and also a communicative or relationship style, that has its source in a lack of self-esteem and, therefore, is a lack of assertiveness. It is a choice that we make. Submission is something a person is inclined to learn because of an unexplained craving or desire to please. Pleasing is learned behavior, after all, we're all rebels. A naturally submissive person lack self esteem, but only with certain dimensions of their persona.
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Free will and human rights as a submissive. (reply)
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Posted:Jun 3, 2023 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2023 4:13 am 7549 Views
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Most Dominants want their submissive to give up their free will. Some want them to give up their human rights. But in the BDSM world, this is really just an illusion.
BDSM is not about controlling anyones free will or their human rights. It is not simply I command and you obey! Dominance and submission is a constant push and pull between willing partners. It isn't a taking or giving up, it is a power exchange. We are equal partners but opposite halves of the circle. First an foremost, a Dominant and a submissive are people in a relationship. Where each is finding fulfillment of their need to please or their need to be pleased. The giving and taking in a BDSM relationship isn't much different than a vanilla relationship. The difference is in the acts each dynamic crafts for themselves.
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Submissive’s CAN disagree and object (Reply)
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Posted:Jun 1, 2023 5:58 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2023 5:52 am 6807 Views
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I am a proponent of the protocol that says a submissive should never use the word “NO”. But that DOESN’T mean they have to say “YES” to everything a Dominant says or wants.
A submissive shouldn't have to negotiate limits or use of their safe word in mid-session. Keep in mind that a submissive in sub space is of a diminished mental capacity.
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Did Donald Trump finish the Wall? (Reply)
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Posted:May 18, 2023 12:18 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2023 6:18 am 6922 Views
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Did he finish it or not?
The vast majority of the 458 miles were constructed in places where some kind of barrier already existed.
And Mexico will pay for the wall.
Mexico basically flipped trump the bird . .
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Integrity (reply)
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Posted:May 12, 2023 3:40 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2023 11:16 am 7566 Views
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Can a Dominant without integrity be trusted, never mind respected?
Trusting a person should only be concerned with honesty . . Realize that a lot of what goes on in BDSM goes against the moral barriers of society. Integrity is eternal and value-based, whereas honesty is fleeting and often based on rules and regulations. As a result, one important distinction between honesty and integrity is that one cannot have integrity without being honest . . .
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