Politicians Attack Alternative Lifestyles
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Posted:Jun 5, 2023 4:52 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2023 6:28 am 6437 Views
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Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signed into law a bill that bans gender-affirming medical care such as puberty blockers or hormone therapy for transgender youth, and also enacts obstacles for adults to access treatment. Taking effect in the third most populous U.S. state, the law escalates a Republican political strategy to pursue bills restricting transgender rights.
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So, you want to be a submissive or slave (reply)
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Posted:Jun 4, 2023 1:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2023 3:59 pm 7085 Views
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The reality is, you don’t know nearly enough to just find a Dominant and jump right into a dynamic.
The reality is Ron, you don't know what anyone reading your blog knows. The truth is, there is no correlation between BDSM and abuse. Submission of a man or woman is a conscious decision to pleasure their partner. How someone becomes submissive? Submission is a behavioral pattern and also a communicative or relationship style, that has its source in a lack of self-esteem and, therefore, is a lack of assertiveness. It is a choice that we make. Submission is something a person is inclined to learn because of an unexplained craving or desire to please. Pleasing is learned behavior, after all, we're all rebels. A naturally submissive person lack self esteem, but only with certain dimensions of their persona.
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Free will and human rights as a submissive. (reply)
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Posted:Jun 3, 2023 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2023 4:13 am 7377 Views
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Most Dominants want their submissive to give up their free will. Some want them to give up their human rights. But in the BDSM world, this is really just an illusion.
BDSM is not about controlling anyones free will or their human rights. It is not simply I command and you obey! Dominance and submission is a constant push and pull between willing partners. It isn't a taking or giving up, it is a power exchange. We are equal partners but opposite halves of the circle. First an foremost, a Dominant and a submissive are people in a relationship. Where each is finding fulfillment of their need to please or their need to be pleased. The giving and taking in a BDSM relationship isn't much different than a vanilla relationship. The difference is in the acts each dynamic crafts for themselves.
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Submissive’s CAN disagree and object (Reply)
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Posted:Jun 1, 2023 5:58 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2023 5:52 am 6682 Views
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I am a proponent of the protocol that says a submissive should never use the word “NO”. But that DOESN’T mean they have to say “YES” to everything a Dominant says or wants.
A submissive shouldn't have to negotiate limits or use of their safe word in mid-session. Keep in mind that a submissive in sub space is of a diminished mental capacity.
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Did Donald Trump finish the Wall? (Reply)
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Posted:May 18, 2023 12:18 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2023 6:18 am 6810 Views
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Did he finish it or not?
The vast majority of the 458 miles were constructed in places where some kind of barrier already existed.
And Mexico will pay for the wall.
Mexico basically flipped trump the bird . .
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Integrity (reply)
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Posted:May 12, 2023 3:40 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2023 11:16 am 7458 Views
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Can a Dominant without integrity be trusted, never mind respected?
Trusting a person should only be concerned with honesty . . Realize that a lot of what goes on in BDSM goes against the moral barriers of society. Integrity is eternal and value-based, whereas honesty is fleeting and often based on rules and regulations. As a result, one important distinction between honesty and integrity is that one cannot have integrity without being honest . . .
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What value does a submissive and Dominant have? (Reply)
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Posted:May 10, 2023 7:54 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2023 4:51 am 7487 Views
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For some it’s nothing more than financial gain from controlling the submissive’s finances or being paid to dominate them.
You can't measure the impact you have on someone's life. You can't quantify imagination or knowledge or creativity. You can't measure the value of synchronicity or serendipty. You can't measure the depth of a a most cherished memory. It is not possible to measure or put a value on the most important moments or people that impact our lives.
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Punishment, Consent and Value
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Posted:May 7, 2023 5:22 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2023 11:01 am 7873 Views
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There is a weaker version of the intentionality condition, according to which (valid) consent at least requires that one not intend not to consent. Doesn't one forgo their right to consent when they intentionally perform a wrongful action. A related idea is that punishment would not violate an offender’s rights even if he explicitly refuses to consent.
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