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Politicians Attack Alternative Lifestyles
Posted:Jun 5, 2023 4:52 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2023 6:28 am
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Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signed into law
a bill that bans gender-affirming medical care
such as puberty blockers or hormone therapy
for transgender youth, and also enacts obstacles
for adults to access treatment
.
Taking effect in the third most populous U.S. state,
the law escalates a Republican political strategy to
pursue bills restricting transgender rights.

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So, you want to be a submissive or slave (reply)
Posted:Jun 4, 2023 1:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2023 3:59 pm
7085 Views

The reality is, you don’t know nearly enough to just find a Dominant and jump right into a dynamic.

The reality is Ron, you don't know what anyone reading
your blog knows. The truth is, there is no correlation
between BDSM and abuse.
Submission of a man or woman is a conscious decision
to pleasure their partner.
How someone becomes submissive? Submission is a
behavioral pattern and also a communicative or relationship
style, that has its source in a lack of self-esteem and,
therefore, is a lack of assertiveness.
It is a choice that we make. Submission is something a person
is inclined to learn because of an unexplained craving or desire
to please.
Pleasing is learned behavior, after all, we're all rebels.
A naturally submissive person lack self esteem, but only with
certain dimensions of their persona.
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Free will and human rights as a submissive. (reply)
Posted:Jun 3, 2023 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2023 4:13 am
7377 Views

Most Dominants want their submissive to give up their free will. Some want them to give up their human rights.
But in the BDSM world, this is really just an illusion.


BDSM is not about controlling anyones
free will or their human rights.
It is not simply I command and you obey!
Dominance and submission is a constant
push and pull between willing partners.
It isn't a taking or giving up, it is a power
exchange. We are equal partners but
opposite halves of the circle.
First an foremost, a Dominant and a
submissive are people in a relationship.
Where each is finding fulfillment of their
need to please or their need to be pleased.
The giving and taking in a BDSM relationship
isn't much different than a vanilla relationship.
The difference is in the acts each dynamic crafts
for themselves.
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Submissive’s CAN disagree and object (Reply)
Posted:Jun 1, 2023 5:58 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2023 5:52 am
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I am a proponent of the protocol that says a submissive should never use the word “NO”.
But that DOESN’T mean they have to say “YES” to everything a Dominant says or wants.


A submissive shouldn't have to negotiate
limits or use of their safe word in mid-session.
Keep in mind that a submissive in sub space is
of a diminished mental capacity.
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Dynamic and self reviews (reply)
Posted:May 28, 2023 6:26 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2023 10:00 am
6090 Views
Every so often I do a self-review of what I am doing and done as a Dominant.
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How Do You Know How Kinky You Are?
Posted:May 27, 2023 7:25 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2023 1:14 pm
6261 Views

When your fantasy
5 Comments
Did Donald Trump finish the Wall? (Reply)
Posted:May 18, 2023 12:18 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2023 6:18 am
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Did he finish it or not?

The vast majority of the 458 miles were constructed in places where some kind of barrier already existed.

And Mexico will pay for the wall.

Mexico basically flipped trump the bird . .
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Integrity (reply)
Posted:May 12, 2023 3:40 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2023 11:16 am
7458 Views

Can a Dominant without integrity be trusted, never mind respected?

Trusting a person should only be concerned
with honesty . . Realize that a lot of what goes
on in BDSM goes against the moral barriers of
society.
Integrity is eternal and value-based, whereas
honesty is fleeting and often based on rules
and regulations. As a result, one important
distinction between honesty and integrity is
that one cannot have integrity without being
honest . . .
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What value does a submissive and Dominant have? (Reply)
Posted:May 10, 2023 7:54 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2023 4:51 am
7487 Views

For some it’s nothing more than financial gain from controlling the submissive’s finances or being paid to dominate them.

You can't measure the impact you
have on someone's life. You can't
quantify imagination or knowledge
or creativity. You can't measure the
value of synchronicity or serendipty.
You can't measure the depth of a
a most cherished memory.
It is not possible to measure or put
a value on the most important moments
or people that impact our lives.
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Punishment, Consent and Value
Posted:May 7, 2023 5:22 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2023 11:01 am
7873 Views
There is a weaker version of the intentionality condition,
according to which (valid) consent at least requires that
one not intend not to consent.
Doesn't one forgo their right to consent when they intentionally
perform a wrongful action.
A related idea is that punishment would not violate an offender’s
rights even if he explicitly refuses to consent.

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