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Did Donald Trump finish the Wall? (Reply)
Posted:May 18, 2023 12:18 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2023 6:18 am
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Did he finish it or not?

The vast majority of the 458 miles were constructed in places where some kind of barrier already existed.

And Mexico will pay for the wall.

Mexico basically flipped trump the bird . .
6 Comments
Integrity (reply)
Posted:May 12, 2023 3:40 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2023 11:16 am
7611 Views

Can a Dominant without integrity be trusted, never mind respected?

Trusting a person should only be concerned
with honesty . . Realize that a lot of what goes
on in BDSM goes against the moral barriers of
society.
Integrity is eternal and value-based, whereas
honesty is fleeting and often based on rules
and regulations. As a result, one important
distinction between honesty and integrity is
that one cannot have integrity without being
honest . . .
4 Comments
What value does a submissive and Dominant have? (Reply)
Posted:May 10, 2023 7:54 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2023 4:51 am
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For some it’s nothing more than financial gain from controlling the submissive’s finances or being paid to dominate them.

You can't measure the impact you
have on someone's life. You can't
quantify imagination or knowledge
or creativity. You can't measure the
value of synchronicity or serendipty.
You can't measure the depth of a
a most cherished memory.
It is not possible to measure or put
a value on the most important moments
or people that impact our lives.
3 Comments
Punishment, Consent and Value
Posted:May 7, 2023 5:22 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2023 11:01 am
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There is a weaker version of the intentionality condition,
according to which (valid) consent at least requires that
one not intend not to consent.
Doesn't one forgo their right to consent when they intentionally
perform a wrongful action.
A related idea is that punishment would not violate an offender’s
rights even if he explicitly refuses to consent.

4 Comments
Danger Will Robinson (reply)
Posted:May 4, 2023 3:30 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2023 6:30 pm
8338 Views

writing about the dangers we face in the Lifestyle.

Keep in mind that BDSM is not
a "lifestyle" it is a sexual behavior.

According to Psychology Today, people
involved in BDSM have, on average,
lower levels of PTSD than the general
population. On the other hand, there
are some people who report practicing
BDSM as a way of working through their
past trauma.

9 Comments
Impact play can be different for each set of partners. {reply}
Posted:May 1, 2023 5:38 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2023 7:41 pm
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Impact play can be different for each set of partners.

When the session involves sub space
it is never the same from one partner
to another and it is rarely close to the
same with the same partner.
4 Comments
Do Dominants need Empathy? (reply)
Posted:Apr 24, 2023 4:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2023 7:23 am
10041 Views

the Dominant of today needs to have empathy in their skill set.

Empathy is not a "skill set"
it is a virtue.
9 Comments
Toys and multiple partners (reply)
Posted:Apr 23, 2023 2:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2023 2:12 pm
9871 Views

Your blog failed to suggest the
most obvious and safest solution.
If you're active with groups an
different people regularly require
everyone provide a negative recent
test result.
5 Comments
8 Questions to ask about your Dominant’s respect for boundaries. (reply)
Posted:Apr 22, 2023 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2023 11:37 am
9466 Views

8. Do they lie?

How is lying/honesty not
the first question. If a
person lies to you, walk
away.
No need for anymore
questions.
3 Comments
A little Honesty and a repost for the day. {reply}
Posted:Apr 19, 2023 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2023 6:55 am
10139 Views

One mistake many people make when first entering the lifestyle, is relying on one person to show them the way or one book or one website.

Knowledge is an illusion . .
Don't let the noise of other's opinions
drown out your own inner voice.
And most important, have the
courage to follow your heart and
intuition. They somehow already
know what you want to become.
Everything else, is secondary.
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