Danger Will Robinson (reply)
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Posted:May 4, 2023 3:30 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2023 6:30 pm 8187 Views
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writing about the dangers we face in the Lifestyle.
Keep in mind that BDSM is not
a "lifestyle" it is a sexual behavior.
According to Psychology Today, people
involved in BDSM have, on average,
lower levels of PTSD than the general
population. On the other hand, there
are some people who report practicing
BDSM as a way of working through their
past trauma.
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Do Dominants need Empathy? (reply)
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Posted:Apr 24, 2023 4:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2023 7:23 am 9905 Views
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the Dominant of today needs to have empathy in their skill set.
Empathy is not a "skill set"
it is a virtue.
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Toys and multiple partners (reply)
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Posted:Apr 23, 2023 2:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2023 2:12 pm 9728 Views
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Your blog failed to suggest the
most obvious and safest solution.
If you're active with groups an
different people regularly require
everyone provide a negative recent
test result.
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A little Honesty and a repost for the day. {reply}
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Posted:Apr 19, 2023 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2023 6:55 am 9993 Views
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One mistake many people make when first entering the lifestyle, is relying on one person to show them the way or one book or one website.
Knowledge is an illusion . .
Don't let the noise of other's opinions
drown out your own inner voice.
And most important, have the
courage to follow your heart and
intuition. They somehow already
know what you want to become.
Everything else, is secondary.
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The Silent Treatment (reply)
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Posted:Apr 18, 2023 3:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2023 9:55 pm 9532 Views
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By using the silent treatment, the Dominant is cutting off all support for the submissive.
Time out is a very effective discipline
for and submissives.
It is also one of the 16 BDSM punishments.
Disciplining a submissive isn't manipulation,
it is training their mind and their spirit
to follow the way of the dynamic they have
chosen.
Sometimes the least painful punishment is
the most effective. Particularly when dealing
with a submissive with a high pain tolerance
that thrives on pain. A set amount of time out
can be very impactful in teaching a lesson.
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Who makes the rules? (reply)
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Posted:Apr 17, 2023 1:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2023 7:08 am 8620 Views
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A Dominant can’t just say, “Do as I say. I make the rules. You obey.”
Actually ron, they can. Your rules end at
your front door. We are all adults here.
There is a distinction to be made between
whether there is a right to do something
and whether it is right to do it.
Following others "rules" ends at age eighteen
and get even wider at age 21.
There is no right or wrong . . just consequences.
Except, of course for laws.
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ABUSE of POWER? (reply)
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Posted:Apr 16, 2023 7:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2023 7:39 am 8679 Views
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His disclosure failures are a
breach of ethics, not an abuse
of power. Not excusing himself
from hearings on Jan. 6th while
his wife was a person of interest
in the investigation.
Thomas' ethical failings shift to
illegal behavior when evidence
of his intent to deceive the pubic
for more than 13 years.
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Wondering
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Posted:Apr 15, 2023 1:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2023 10:28 am 8268 Views
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When I'm sitting at a red light
and I look over and the person
in the car next to me is wearing
a mask, alone in their car.
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