Equality
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Posted:Dec 13, 2022 8:30 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2022 7:49 pm 10244 Views
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It is the wanting and the needing of expectations that makes Dominants and submissives equal. It never ceases to amaze me that those who look down on someone for their particular bent in the lifestyle (Top or bottom) or feel that Dominant equals better and submissive equals less. Each person in whatever type of relationship you have with anyone you are involved with has a set of expectations, a set of rules and a set of priorities we recognize about each other. The D/s relationship is no different. Now I have heard the argument, “I am the Dom, so I set the rules, the expectations and the priorities”. Well good for you, don’t all of us Doms do that? Yes, but only the foolish don’t realize we can only set these rules and expectations and priorities to a partner who as an equal has her own set of rules, expectations and priorities she needs. As much as a Dominant expects a submissive to follow their concepts of rules, expectations and priorities, a Dominant must be willing to do likewise for a submissive. Both partners need something within a relationship. Yes a submissive wants to have rules and sets of priorities and expectations set for them, but they also have some needs of their own that a Dominant needs to fill. Before we go stroking our egos thinking, “yeah they need us”, let us not forget we want/need them as much as they do us. Take time to actually ask what they want to do once in awhile, or better yet get to know your partner so well that you don’t have to ask, you can just do To both Dominants and submissives a piece of advice: want your partner to make you happy and do all that they can to nurture you? Give more and take less.
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Christmas Paradox
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Posted:Dec 12, 2022 7:17 am
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2022 6:47 pm 9977 Views
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Christmas is built upon a beautiful and intentional paradox; That the birth of a homeless should be celebrated in every home.
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Perception
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Posted:Dec 11, 2022 6:58 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2023 1:31 pm 10090 Views
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A man sat down at a bar and told the bartender, "I bet you three hundred dollars that I can piss into the cup all the way over there on the other side of the bar and not miss a single drop." The bartender said, "There is no way you can do that. Sure, I'll bet you three hundred dollars." The man then begins to undo his pants and begins pissing. He starts pissing all over the bar, spraying on the bottles and the bartender, not making a single drop in the cup. The bartender starts smiling and laughing and says, "That's it, you owe me three hundred dollars." The man then gets up and walks over to the pool table and starts laughing and shaking hands with the men standing there. He walks back to bar, sits down and starts laughing at the bartender and hands him the money. The bartender asks, "Why are you laughing? You just lost the bet." The man said, "I'm laughing because I bet those guys over there one thousand dollars that I could piss all over you and your bar and you would still be laughing when I was done." Sometimes what we perceive as being good, is just being pissed on again.
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Evil Is Blind
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Posted:Dec 9, 2022 4:57 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2022 11:26 am 9421 Views
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There is a demonic nature that occurs when one persons will Dominants another in a way that pushes and goes against the barriers of accepted social behavior. It is also an endless, aching, hunger for the evil within us . . There is a long-standing belief that both good and evil exist within each of us . . The Cherokee would tell you, the one that prevails depends on the one you feed, while in the far east . . they would say, it depends on what we sow within our consciousness. But evil . . actually is not something real. . Evil is simply an absence of decency and good . . When I take you to that place in your mind and in mine . . Decency and good will have scurried into the corner . . It is the beast, the demon that you bow beneath . . to offer your unsated hunger to . . You claim to not be meant for frivolous acts of sex and lust . . considered unnecessary to your intellect . . I suggest when you bow, to be used and taken . . that you adjust your eyes to the darkness . . So as not to be blinded by the light . . but not to worry young lady, your lessons will not require you to be sighted . . for lessons of the soul cannot be seen . . nor can the evil that precipitates your blindness.
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Fear
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Posted:Dec 8, 2022 9:15 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2022 4:26 am 9385 Views
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A Master does not train a submissive with fear . . Because there will always be something they fear more than you. If you train a submissive with trust and respect . . They will come to you . . No matter what their fears are.
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Tne Master
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Posted:Dec 7, 2022 6:54 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2022 6:55 am 9198 Views
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His sharpest edges no longer hidden beneath the soft pulp of youth . . He has walked the journey of self discovery and the twisted paths of learning. The paradox that the closer we come to ourselves, the further we go from others. That while you cannot seek answers from your own heart, soul, spirit . . being far from others because the answers you seek cannot be given or spoken to you . . only learned through living.
A Master travels the world over in search of truth, only to return to find the answer was where he left it. That to the questions in life . . you are the only answer . . That to the problems in life . . you are the only solution.
The Master finds that he can teach anyone how to get what they want out of life . . But he can't find anyone, that knows what they seek from life . .
He finds that most stand in their own shadow . . and wonder why it's dark . . But the true submissive stands in their own shadow so the light of their Master may shine brighter.
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Which Hunt
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Posted:Dec 6, 2022 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2022 12:38 pm 9402 Views
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A Manhattan jury has found Trump's namesake real estate company guilty of criminal tax fraud, three weeks after Trump announced a third presidential run. Banks could call in loans and business partners could cancel contracts if their internal policies prevent them from doing business with felons.
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The Invitation
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Posted:Dec 6, 2022 9:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2022 3:20 pm 9099 Views
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It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.
It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dream for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon... I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful to be realistic to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes.”
It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the .
It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
by Oriah
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North Korea
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Posted:Dec 5, 2022 2:23 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2022 9:49 am 5975 Views
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Ever wonder why trump didn't do anything when north korea sent college student Otto Warmbier home in a coma Donald Trump failed to disclose a $19.8 million loan from a company with ties to North Korea while he was president, Forbes reported Sunday, citing documents uncovered by the New York attorney general’s office. He couldn't take care of an American college student killed by north korea but Overruled Experts on Sanctions, in Favor to North Korea.
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Climate Change
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Posted:Dec 2, 2022 8:11 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2022 6:44 am 5738 Views
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I used to be sort of embarassed by my native American experience and could never get my mind around the rain dance. But I have to admit that it seems a better belief than the 25% of Americans that don't believe weather is a science but believe that "God" controls the weather.
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