Ultimatums (reply)
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Posted:Jan 18, 2024 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2024 6:21 am 4232 Views
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Some things in BDSM can be both positive and negative, depending on how they are used. Ultimatums can work that way.
Ultimatums are not a valid BDSM protocol.
A true Dom(me) barks no demand for power
prior to negotiation and drawing boundaries.
Dom(me)s do not coerce, set ultimatums,
manipulate, or berate someone for submission—
unless, of course, berating is specifically
requested.
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Sadism (reply)
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Posted:Jan 16, 2024 12:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2024 6:24 pm 3833 Views
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Sadism runs the gamut of soft to extreme,
There is no painless sadism.
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Martin Luther King Day
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Posted:Jan 15, 2024 8:22 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2024 5:58 am 3716 Views
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There is no doubt that Martin
Luther King Jr. was the driving
force behind the civil rights act
of 1964. But republican politicians,
like de santis have tried to reduce
the freedoms, rights and equality
for minorities in this country.
They don't want the true history
taught in schools about slavery,
civil rights or the accomplishments
of minorities. The latest legislation
Florida Republicans have introduced
would silence basically any accusations
of discrimination. So that even though
discrimination is illegal it would also be
illegal to complain about it in Florida.
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Qualifications (reply)
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2024 5:54 pm 3373 Views
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Do you consider if your prospective partner, or your partner for that matter, is qualified to do what they will be doing or are doing with you?
Do they have the qualities needed to be a Dominant or a submissive>
Finding a partner for a relationship is
not interviewing candidates for a position
that requires, "qualifications".
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Obey/Obedience (reply)
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Posted:Jan 11, 2024 12:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2024 6:40 am 3711 Views
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This is really a cornerstone of submission.
Here are the definitions of each: Obedience:
Obedience refers to the act of following
instructions or orders from someone in a
position of authority.
Submission: Submission refers to the act of
yielding to the authority or control of someone
else.
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Naïve
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Posted:Jan 10, 2024 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2024 8:43 am 3593 Views
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Many novices coming into the Lifestyle are as naïve as you can get.
Tabula rasa . .
Tabula rasa is the idea of individuals being
born empty of any built-in mental content,
so that all knowledge comes from later
perceptions.
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Knowledge (reply)
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Posted:Jan 7, 2024 11:24 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2024 6:57 pm 4411 Views
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They say knowledge is power.
I do know that knowledge gives you the power to make the choices you need to make when considering whether to give or accept consent,
knowledge is not understanding, understanding
is not wisdom. Every great advance in natural
knowledge has involved the absolute rejection of
authority. He who knows nothing is closer to the
truth than he whose mind is filled with falsehoods
and errors.
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Stairway To Happiness
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Posted:Jan 5, 2024 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2024 1:54 pm 4748 Views
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Your stairway
to happiness
doesn't lead to
the same place
everyone else's
does . . .
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Jesse James
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Posted:Jan 5, 2024 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2024 9:52 pm 4772 Views
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Someone reminded me today
that as a I once spent
the night in the same jail cell
that Jesse James was once jailed
in.
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