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Springfiel117 43 男性
18 文章
分數 0.0
Meh   2023-10-10

When did the messenger stop letting new members message people using points?


0 評論, 21 瀏覽次數, 20 票 ,0.06 分數
RinBoots 71 女性
27 文章
分數 0.0
Use your common sense   2023-07-09

When looking for an experience on this site, just use you common sense things are easy to spot and if your are unsure stay away and be safe.


5 評論, 45 瀏覽次數, 24 票 ,0.74 分數
knottiedrottie 58 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
dirty   2023-01-16

making sure everyone here is clean and want to meet and checking things out to make sure you are real not a scam.


4 評論, 64 瀏覽次數, 41 票 ,0.33 分數
Seeking_MY_slave 49 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
asked for money   2020-08-13

How many people her have been asked for money. The other day a woman was very sad that she couldn't her rent at a hotel, she didn't get paid till friday. She said she was in a hotel, because her husband her, but when I said I was sorry hear that, and if I could see, she disapeared from the chat, but stayed onlinr.


4 評論, 106 瀏覽次數, 68 票 ,1.20 分數
traindeadwood 69 男性
2 文章
分數 0.0
Extreme Abuse   2020-01-02

If you say you are no limits are you in danger of not coming out alive? <br><br> Could any NO LIMITS slaves tell me what their experiences are. And if they have got more cautious as a result of their lack of limits. <br><br> Thank you


6 評論, 94 瀏覽次數, 66 票 ,1.73 分數
steffiswallows 61 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Violence and reality for trans   2019-11-25

This year, world-wide, 331 transgenders were slain. Here in the united states, twenty-two transgender people were murdered. Ninety-one percent of those folks were trans-women of color. Eighty percent were younger than thirty years of age. We know that these numbers represent an undercount. In many counties and regions police reports, media and even blood relatives misgender and deadname ...


4 評論, 149 瀏覽次數, 107 票 ,2.48 分數
nonsignifigant 55 男性
0 文章
分數 0.0
A Chat with an Ewhore   2019-06-25

The following is a direct cut/paste from a Google Hangouts chat log that I recently had with someone who IM'd me on AdultFriendFinder. It has been reported AdultFriendFinder. <br><br> <br><br> Ross - 3:28 PM OK, I am on here Rose Garry - 3:29 PM Hello Ross am here with you too Ross - 3:30 PM I can see you are very pretty, you don't have to keep sending pics Rose ...


8 評論, 173 瀏覽次數, 85 票 ,2.75 分數
rott4444milfsss 44 男性
2 文章
分數 0.0
looking   2018-05-15

sometimes we have to look farther and look into what we have in cumming sometimes it take bdsm to get to know someone better and get alone and try new thing and explore new thing with them. getting to meet someone the first time it take time to get to know them and get to see what they are into one you get to know them and see what they are into many doors open to you and you feel more open to ...


0 評論, 67 瀏覽次數, 53 票 ,2.33 分數
repeatedbehavior 34 女性
6 文章
分數 0.0
oohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh   2017-09-20

The most effective ways to earn points are to encourage other members to become your Top Fans, send you virtual gifts, or by broadcasting your webcam. Members can tip you points for a great show! Try some clever approaches in your profile text and communications to gather Top Fans and gifts!


7 評論, 100 瀏覽次數, 60 票 ,4.13 分數
SexyHard58 28 男性
4 文章
分數 0.0
Public   2015-07-19

Always meet in public first wouldn't you say?


10 評論, 124 瀏覽次數, 48 票 ,2.88 分數
prddddd 38 女性
0 文章
分數 0.0
GAGOL   2015-07-12

Most people struggle with finding their identity at some point in their life. They go through a series of changes and eventually come to a point where they understand and accept who they are. Before they can accept themselves, they may experiment with new things or try to ignore a part of themselves they do not want to accept. Gogol Ganguli from Jhumpa Lahari's novel The Namesake encounters the ...


5 評論, 143 瀏覽次數, 46 票 ,2.66 分數
Londonsub1991 33 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Warning for UK/London based members   2015-04-23

I got messaged by an American girl based in Virginia stating that she was coming over to London next week and she said later that she worked with an organisation affiliated to ALT that hosted orgy parties and the like. When answering my questions she was very vague and was evidently trying to grab money off me. Later another account from someone in LA responded with exactly the same thing. This ...


2 評論, 106 瀏覽次數, 45 票 ,3.09 分數
jetsly 77 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
How to use SAVE IMAGE AS   2015-02-07

When I am approached by a Mistress, the first thing that I do is run her profile photo by a number of on line registries. Take, for example, a domme who emailed me last night. Her ALT profile situates her in Redding, California. I used Save Image As to download her profile photo to the desktop, and then used both Tineye and Google images to do a search. There was a positive hit, for ...


19 評論, 334 瀏覽次數, 85 票 ,4.40 分數
TheSmartDom 56 男性
9 文章
分數 0.0
Safety in Meeting Men for BDSM   2012-05-18

Comments on Safety in BDSM MJ Reldan TheSmartDom

Our society began with women as chattel and slaves. It hasn’t set a good scene for safe, sane and consentual play. Some men feel that acceptance of their dominance is permission to hold ALL power and worse, license to wield it recklessly. The world of Dominance gives shelter to people of poor character and sick mind, with little to ...


2 評論, 160 瀏覽次數, 38 票 ,5.15 分數
roxy37sexy 61 女性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Meeting in Public First   2011-09-03

I think it is important to meet in public first to see if you like one another then being in someone's home. You just never know if you like one another. Of course you will experience no shows but that is part of dating process so expect it. I know I heard horror stories. So becareful out there. So how do you feel meeting in public first? Just Curious.


16 評論, 354 瀏覽次數, 65 票 ,5.01 分數
Lcd18 69 男性
10 文章
分數 0.0
When is the right time to meet.   2010-12-04

Since i joined this site, i've exchanged a few emails, but wondered at some point meeting would be brought up, where should the first meeting take place and should a trusted friend either witness it or be near by?.of course it should be in a public place.then it fells like stepping out of my box or comfort zone, anyone else felt this way?.


6 評論, 200 瀏覽次數, 24 票 ,1.54 分數
joyrdassasin4 32 男性
4 文章
分數 0.0
safe sex   2010-01-29

ok so its been a "viral video" with a woman on there saying all the guys she has infected with aids. but yesterday on the radio she called in a cleared it up and said it was just to get more people to view her site and that she is 100% percent clean. She also said that this was to inform peole that aids is real and is still going around. SO WRAP IT UP PEOPLE PLEASE


0 評論, 78 瀏覽次數, 4 票 ,0.92 分數
joyrdassasin4 32 男性
4 文章
分數 0.0
safety 1st   2010-01-29

its always good 2 b safe o a date when meeting someone over the net. U never know if they are some stalker psycho lol or anything like that so always b careful... n always wrap it up


2 評論, 56 瀏覽次數, 20 票 ,0.19 分數
best_dom_cairo 43 男性
5 文章
分數 0.0
profiles   2009-04-04

I would like to point out to people that if they do not fill out their profiles with any details, then they are possibly setting themselves up to be over looked. However I do wonder what the point of writing this in the magazine as most of the readers are people who have put alot of time and effort into revealing important details about themselv


1 評論, 38 瀏覽次數, 4 票 ,0.92 分數
phonedoc 66 男性
8 文章
分數 0.0
Chancing an eggshell ambience   2008-12-24

I have recently visited my local BDSM club nights twice and once to a munch. The munch was very relaxed but I was still observing etiquette in this situation. I have found the club nights very nerve wracking as if I was walking on eggshells. Granted the first night with a Halloween theme went well and I played with two women, lucky me. The last 'Burlesque' themed evening I was smiled at by a very ...


3 評論, 146 瀏覽次數, 10 票
Birdfinder 80 男性
45 文章
分數 0.0
Safety is a Rwo Way Street   2008-04-01

Safety on dates is really a two way street. I am not a small guy and in very hard condition. While not a giant I know how to care for myself and I have the alpha attitude that keeps most respectful.

I am selective about who I meet and who I date. I don't send money to on line contacts with tear jerk tales. Have had those from east and west in USA as well as Russia, Nigeria and ...


1 評論, 134 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,5.33 分數
zennflower 61 女性
10 文章
分數 0.0
How Do I Find a Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress?   2007-06-27

Before you even start looking for a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress. Know yourself, what your desires, your wants, you needs, your limits and what you are looking for in a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress. It's a good idea to actually write these lists out, that way while you are talking with them you have the answers right there and don't have to rely on memory. ...


4 評論, 247 瀏覽次數, 28 票 ,7.14 分數
ffdarkwolfe 48 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
what kind of tips should guys follow?   2006-11-02

normally, the tips are targeted to woman, should men follow similar things, something different, or just go with the flow?


0 評論, 200 瀏覽次數, 6 票 ,1.94 分數
sexymale1974 49 男性
2 文章
分數 0.0
Beware of the clingy woman........   2006-10-02

Hello everyone. What's up? I love ladies in every way, but ther is one that can be a nightmare. She's the recently seperated female that know's only how to be in a relationship. They can be the best and the crazyest bitch in the world. So my advice is to just leave everything sexual.....Good luck...


2 評論, 168 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,0.43 分數
sex_demon96 43 男性
5 文章
分數 0.0
Protection against crazy ex-gf's   2006-09-27

It seems like any jealously crazy ex-girlfriend can pick up the phone at any time and accuse a man of domestic assault, what have you, and send them to jail whenever they feel like it. As a man we seem to have no rights or protection, it's always our word against theirs and with these no-tolerance laws the man always get f**ked over.
What suggestions or ideas do people have to ...


1 評論, 244 瀏覽次數, 5 票 ,1.84 分數
sex_demon96 43 男性
5 文章
分數 0.0
Protection against crazy ex-gf's   2006-09-27

It seems like any jealously crazy ex-girlfriend can pick up the phone at any time and accuse a man of domestic assault, what have you, and send them to jail whenever they feel like it. As a man we seem to have no rights or protection, it's always our word against theirs and with these no-tolerance laws the man always get f**ked over.
What suggestions or ideas do people have to ...


0 評論, 28 瀏覽次數, 0 票
starmakerxxx 57 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
The Best of Times   2006-08-23

What a great age we live in today. Like a lot of people I thought I was born at the wrong time. I see it more on the alt site, but I've heard it from several groups. You know, " I should have been born at this time or that age. But when it comes to B&D/S&M this is the best of times.
This is the most natural and fun form of "perversion". Like anything else people can take it too ...


0 評論, 78 瀏覽次數, 5 票 ,0.86 分數
planoman2 74 男性
50 文章
分數 0.0
Sir Thomas Trains Bob and Clair - Part II   2006-08-23

Sir Thomas had Clair and Bob put their hands behind their backs. He then tied their wrists together behind their backs. He opened the door to the hotel room and told them to follow him. Both Bob and Clair being totally nude were reluctant to go out of the hotel room. They hesitated just a second before both of them received blows on their buttocks with a command, “Move!”
...


0 評論, 470 瀏覽次數, 16 票 ,4.01 分數
IronDuke2006 58 男性
2 文章
分數 0.0
Being safe...   2006-07-11

Don't give them your address & landline phone number.
Do meet first in a pub;ic place. Do arrange a 'safe call' with a friend for a certain time.
Don't always listen to gossip. Some is malicious, more inaccurate.
Do get his full real name, dob & address & phone number.
Trust your own instincts.
Remember we are all human...


2 評論, 194 瀏覽次數, 16 票 ,5.63 分數
Larvaefam 55 女性
7 文章
分數 0.0
Mother fucker or Dom?   2006-06-26

How to define them? Very simple, look to their attitude;



Mother fuckers are unable to grow their subs. They want to get them already educated.
Real domes are always keen to teach, train and grow. Mother fuckers usually are worry about the level of experience of their subs.
Mother fuckers ...


4 評論, 701 瀏覽次數, 25 票 ,3.68 分數
dom153 75 男性
3 文章
分數 0.0
meetings   2006-06-23

how many of you arranged to meet someone and found that they have not turned up


1 評論, 345 瀏覽次數, 6 票 ,1.66 分數
Larvaefam 55 女性
7 文章
分數 0.0
FAT BOYS SLIM is not the question when you know the art of trust   2006-06-15

Fat boys or slim?

The domes learn submissive partners for their best. Unfortunately, at alt.com many submissive boys ask domes to guess do they fat boys or slim, ha ha That’s for example, or other secrets, Often they ask – Prove me that you are the real dome. Some want to see a kind of magic abilities that the domes must have. The domes don’t like to be ...


0 評論, 108 瀏覽次數, 7 票 ,3.04 分數
SexKitten41958 65 女性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Could YOU be the next victim?   2006-06-09

In our world of instant gratification it is sad, but true that more and more men turn to the use of drugs to get the attention and instant gratification of the girl of their choice, and YOU may not be capable to give your consent.
You are out there looking for a sexual encounter of your CHOOSING. The magic words are your CHOICE and with your CONSENT. Don’t ...


0 評論, 317 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,5.14 分數
GoldMan234 51 男性
6 文章
分數 0.0
What steps do you take to be safe?   2006-05-22

Ok I am to the point in this I want to meet the other person. My question is how do I go to be tottaly safe in the meeting?


6 評論, 292 瀏覽次數, 3 票 ,3.43 分數
Larvaefam 55 女性
7 文章
分數 0.0
Ohnun wrote thousand letters to the submissive and masochistic   2006-04-30

Part two of IngYang Pussy.
Soon the buns in form of Her Pussy was named as Ya. The buns became very popular in the region and the town was renamed as Ya (after the very popular juice Ya). IngYang when it renamed itself inYa has got improved his self-esteem too much and too far. In the result all citizens of Ya became very fat from eating the buns Ya. ...



1 評論, 81 瀏覽次數, 7 票 ,3.04 分數
Larvaefam 55 女性
7 文章
分數 0.0
About Whites   2006-04-24

In his first work day on Saturday, American Whites woke up at 6 a.m. . The Sun was already frying the gray day with all its possibilities. The coldest shower was used to cry: “Have a nice day Honey”. After he has inserted his head into the black mask of a cat’s face, and hands into vinyl gloves, the schoolgirl’s skirt was put on his hips; the white ...


1 評論, 412 瀏覽次數, 5 票 ,1.19 分數
Larvaefam 55 女性
7 文章
分數 0.0
IngYang (how to date safety and earn from that)   2006-04-21

Part One. IngYang is the little town located in the Western Siberia, Russia. The town IngYang was always known as the town of the nicest bread. The IngYang’s bread was famous because of its fragrance. Ohnun was the woman and the Chief of the baking department at the IngYang bread manufacture. All her men of IngYang have never even thought about ...


0 評論, 63 瀏覽次數, 3 票 ,2.94 分數
dynamitesneonaty 41 男性
11 文章
分數 0.0
How can I be nice but choosey?   2006-04-13

I'm really picky with girls, as I'm sure most are. I'm sorry to say it, but the vast majority of people I've met from here are fat and unattractive, despite me trying to qualify them a lot before meeting. Anyone have good ideas here?


0 評論, 56 瀏覽次數, 2 票
Cpl4fun_one 63 伴侶(男人和女人)
3 文章
分數 0.0
Lookover   2006-03-18

One can never be too safe when meeting people from this site. I like to chat for an extended period of time and when it comes time to swap pics then I include one with a beard or in my leathers from being on the road. I promise after a shave and the jacket and chaps come off I look totally different. I may also set up a drink or coffee date and include my clothing description. I dress ...


0 評論, 138 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,4.64 分數
lynched4u 65 男性
83 文章
分數 0.0
Erotic Nights   2006-03-17

Trina was awakened by the ear piercing screams reverberating off her bedroom wall. As she fumbled to switch on her night light she was startled by the gruff voice from her neighbors apartment that constantly barked orders to the whimpering woman. Kneel bitch he shouted, as the thud of a whip resounded off the unmistakable sound of her bare skin. Trina had only met her neighbor once but ...


0 評論, 152 瀏覽次數, 2 票 ,5.20 分數
jackudamiona 59 伴侶(男人和女人)
13 文章
分數 0.0
Hotel Room Info   2006-03-17

A large number of people use hotel rooms when meeting new people for play, but do you know how important it is to keep the hotel room cards you get for your doors. These cards have all the information on them that you gave the clerk, including credit card number and expiration date. It has your home address, Phone number, liscence number, and everything that someone could use to steal ...


2 評論, 357 瀏覽次數, 16 票 ,4.01 分數
10orbetter 59 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
You Never Know   2006-02-20

Have you ever met someone and over the phone they sound NORMAL, and everything seems to be going well??? Then you meet and find out this person is a REAL NUT CASE??


1 評論, 204 瀏覽次數, 6 票 ,1.37 分數
wyckedredhead 54 女性
8 文章
分數 0.0
Safety 101: Is He For Real?   2006-02-10

Top ten signs that the "Dom" who just messaged you is not for real: <br> 1. He initiates your first email or IM conversation with a command. This is called the "On Your Knees Now" routine, and it's the hallmark of a really clueless HNG (horny net geek) or "chudwah" (clueless hetero dom-wannabe). <br> 2. He gets belligerent, rude or angry if you ask a question or ...


5 評論, 468 瀏覽次數, 28 票 ,6.22 分數
wyckedredhead 54 女性
8 文章
分數 0.0
Safety 101: What Is A Safecall?   2006-02-06

In my previous article, I mentioned safecalls. A safecall is basically a safety line to the outside world: Someone out there knows where you are, who you are with, and what you are doing, in order to help minimize your risk. Here are some tips for arranging a safecall for your first date: <br> <br> 1. Get all the information that you can from the person you're meeting. ...


1 評論, 322 瀏覽次數, 29 票 ,6.95 分數
wyckedredhead 54 女性
8 文章
分數 0.0
Safety 101: The First Date   2006-02-03

So you've been chatting to that hot new Dom/me or potential sub online or on the phone for some time, and now it's finally time to meet face to face! Sure, you have butterflies in your stomach; but chances are, so does the other person. Here's some advice to help minimize your risk, and keep those butterflies calm. <br> <br> 1. Keep it short. Half an hour to an hour ...


1 評論, 1004 瀏覽次數, 58 票 ,7.23 分數
masterzad 40 男性
5 文章
分數 0.0
Partner   2006-02-01

Allows spend the night together before marrage. That the only way u know if you can stand the person in the morning


0 評論, 70 瀏覽次數, 4 票 ,0.92 分數
masterzad 40 男性
5 文章
分數 0.0
Drink   2006-02-01

Keep your eyes on your drink at all times


0 評論, 64 瀏覽次數, 2 票
bdsmnn 53 男性
18 文章
分數 0.0
the   2006-01-08

Christmas!


0 評論, 66 瀏覽次數, 4 票 ,0.14 分數
EDiva 53 女性
10 文章
分數 0.0
a little stress relief   2006-01-02

"I need to relieve some stress, " was all he had said before he raised her nightgown up, bent her over the couch and rammed his cock into her pussy. At the first thrust of his cock into her pussy, she immediately became wet. <br> "Shitty day?" she said breathlessly as she looked over her shoulder at him. <br> "Just shut the fuck up, " he said as he began to slam in ...


0 評論, 235 瀏覽次數, 10 票 ,3.98 分數
Phoenix_flame 60 女性
8 文章
分數 0.0
Discipline   2005-12-18

The hot lick of sun as it poured over my exposed flesh warred with the chill air pumping from the car’s air conditioner. My brain was conflicted as well because the signal it was getting from my blindfolded eyes was that of complete darkness. My ears too were submitting almost negative input from my surroundings. All that i could hear with the industrial strength ear plugs inserted in ...


0 評論, 190 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,2.57 分數
r_zimmerman 44 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Giving out your email addy   2005-08-30

Hi, <br> I'm pretty new to this and I had a question about giving out your email address. A standard member contacted me and while I'm interested in contacting her the site clearly warns against giving out your email address. I'm wondering if this is for my safety or a marketing ploy for alt.com as it would behoove them to discourage us from communicating outside of alt.com. ...


4 評論, 397 瀏覽次數, 18 票 ,3.26 分數
lynched4u 65 男性
83 文章
分數 0.0
Taking a risk for r/t activities   2005-08-12

With the ability to determine the origins of e-mails, aren't on-line members in the lifestyle at a lower risk for harm than their counterparts, or is the endless ambivalance to meet justified by a noteworthy experience that has tainted your trust. How many use a safe call, or bring along someone else when meeting a potential suitor.


2 評論, 243 瀏覽次數, 5 票 ,3.47 分數
Chainmaster100 58 男性
9 文章
分數 0.0
First meeting   2005-07-22

I believe a first meeting should always take place in a busy location were numbers can help make anyone feel safe.


1 評論, 206 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,5.10 分數
dynamitesneon 41 男性
10 文章
分數 0.0
Is the world that scary?   2005-07-09

How many people are afraid of those they talk to on here? I know the world is dangers and blah blah. Trust me, I'm aware; I've lived just outside Detroit my whole life. That doesn't make me afraid of meeting people. How much distance would you keep and for how long?


2 評論, 170 瀏覽次數, 2 票 ,5.20 分數
karielynn 53 女性
1 文章
分數 0.0
man wanting to take me to   2005-05-23

ok, everyone, here it is: I am a 35 yr old single mom. Always been in vanilla relationships and long to explore and learn more. Never been fucked by a stranger. This guy on sex search approached me. In his ad he mentioned wanting a travel companion for a trip to mexico. well--- here is his latest letter to me: Message: Morning Karie, Thanks for getting back to me, sending ...


9 評論, 1000 瀏覽次數, 17 票 ,3.55 分數
aromaniac 58 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Sydney male subs please read   2005-05-16

Beware of dreemmistress, Bondi, Sydney <br> I recently contacted the above named mistress through the alt.com site. I gave her my telephone number when she requested communication that way. She contacted me through her 'private number' mobile and we spoke 2 or 3 times on the phone over a period of about 2 weeks. She controlled these conversations and got me to send her an e-mail ...


0 評論, 377 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,3.94 分數
dresseuse 66 女性
3 文章
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Checking the Bag   2005-05-06

Even after having met a new LOVER or prospective MASTER, I find myself checking at least initially his bag or luggage containing the Toys of his Trade. I had a few nasty surprises a few years back that were sprung onto me during several extended play session, and which could have been avoided. Its simply a bit awkward to be bound and secured and then being prodded with a nasty and ...


7 評論, 3641 瀏覽次數, 110 票 ,5.29 分數
rollingblock 65 男性
1 文章
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Lesson Learned the Hard way   2005-03-31

THIS IS ALL TRUE I met this subie on line and we chatted and found mutual intrest. After a week of chatting she said lets meet. Well ok I figured this would be a short and interesting date and we would chat some more. Well after two or so hours she said lets go to her place and play. I never did this befor but heard others did and figured should be safe(BAD MOVE#1). She asked if I would ...


1 評論, 733 瀏覽次數, 15 票 ,5.27 分數
LordGreyBear 75 男性
4 文章
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Hard Limits   2005-03-16

One of the things I have found interesting is that when most list hard limits they fail to list the most important one of all. Of course, I am sure that many feel that everyone knows that it is a limit but as was drilled into me since I was a : When we assume..we make an ass out of u and me. The limit I am speaking of is snuff. I find it almost amusing that so many take the time to put ...


3 評論, 543 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,3.00 分數
MEDICALSCAT 56 男性
3 文章
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What do you think   2005-03-06

I have just been contacted by someone on this site who viewed my profile which is fairly specific. The persons profile states that he is a 66yo white dom although there is no photo. after exchanging a few emails I gave him my phone number. The upshot of this phone call is that he is 60yo lives just over the road from the train station I have to get to and has a middle eastern accent and ...


1 評論, 496 瀏覽次數, 4 票 ,1.30 分數
sec7238 57 男性
2 文章
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Always Think About Safety   2005-02-11

Here are my guidelines for initial meetings. <br> 1. Meet at a public place (coffee shoppe, resturant, ...). Try to avoid bars and any place that might add additional stress to the situation. <br> 2. If you have never been there before, make a trial run. Know what to expect when you walk in. <br> 3. Bring a friend if you are not completely comfortable. ...


0 評論, 480 瀏覽次數, 21 票 ,4.98 分數
trannyannie2 65 跨性別
1 文章
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A CAUTIONARY "TAIL"   2005-01-30

 Dolly Pants, Diary of a Sissy Slave <br> At the beginning it was a subtle phenomena as simple as mom wanting their first to be a girl and dad wanting a little boy. The father, R.C. we’ll call him worked long hard hours as a coalminer. Mom, we’ll call her Debra had one older sister and three younger ones. They all thought the baby was a “living ...


1 評論, 433 瀏覽次數, 11 票
KYLeatherLover 66 男性
1 文章
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Confirm ID   2005-01-22

Why is it that the majority of people on here don't have a "Confirm ID"? Get an ID, people. It instills a greater form of trust on both sides. I, personally, don't take any replies I get seriously unless they have a "Confirm ID". Are these people hiding something, or are they just playing with the serious ones on here? Master Gene


4 評論, 320 瀏覽次數, 17 票 ,1.29 分數
Man_Bear25 44 男性
7 文章
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there isn't such a thing..   2005-01-12

There should be one more book about dating, and it should be call "Dating Safety For Dummies". if there is one already then good luck with it because in my eyes there isnt such a thing. I know what you are saying BS BS BS well let me try to prove it to you, Ask yourself one thing, How many times have you studied and rsearch a guy or girl and became friends first before you went out with ...


1 評論, 213 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,3.00 分數
SweetDenial 66 女性
7 文章
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Assault   2004-11-27

Mistresses, Doms, submissives all have to worry about the safty issue. I met a so called switch in 2004. He was charming in the beginning but as the relationship progressed flags started to rise. He claimed he was divorced but would rant and rave about his X wife, he was extremely anal about everything. Everything had to lined up. Even his female attire had to be just so. After about ...


9 評論, 2015 瀏覽次數, 145 票 ,4.76 分數
mistress_moyra 55 女性
4 文章
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Legal troubles   2004-11-16

There is another type of safty issue that needs to be addressed here. This is not so much for those new to the lifestyle, though I'm sure many of that stary-eyed rank can benifit from this. I however have seen many older members of this community fall into this trap time and again. The issue is of underaged dating without realizing it. <br> Do not get caught by this!! If the ...


7 評論, 1781 瀏覽次數, 165 票 ,7.96 分數
S_she_S 54 女性
36 文章
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Red Flags for a First Meet   2004-11-06

The name has been taken out to protect the person I am talking about but here is the Scenario: <br> Met here, e-mail sent to me, replied to and so on and so forth, agreed to chat on another service, for realtime conversation instant messaging. Now this person didn't like the fact that I don't write novels as e-mails, which is fine, but then, once in Imz...Hmmmm We chatted a few ...


2 評論, 871 瀏覽次數, 83 票 ,7.38 分數
Man_Bear25 44 男性
7 文章
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whats really safe?   2004-10-30

When we talk about dating we think of the most beautiful things, the perfect man or woman and the best sex of all time. Then we find out the ones we date are crazy idiots who want to exploid our bodies and mind then trash them like paper plates, not a good thing specially with all those std's out there. The truth is there isnt a safe way to date, be honest, straight forward and be careful ...


1 評論, 122 瀏覽次數, 19 票 ,2.86 分數
Tyler-Rose 54 女性
28 文章
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How To Be An Effective SafeCaller   2004-10-23

Dangerous people, dangerous situations. How do we ensure our safety when we meet for the first time? How do we know the person won’t become the abuser down the line? <br> These are the most important issues for anyone meeting anyone, anywhere. <br> When a woman goes to a BDSM society meeting, she is meeting people in a public place. Going out for coffee or a bite to ...


7 評論, 580 瀏覽次數, 54 票 ,9.13 分數
babycookie 50 女性
2 文章
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Don't do what I did   2004-10-09

I went to meet Wymondhamguy, andthought Ok we'll be Ok in private, although he was older looking than his photo, he was OK. <br> When we got private we did some light things, a bit of this and that, but I had said 'condoms' I had said no intercouse. ( unless condoms) <br> But what did he do, knelt in front of me and F***king slipped his dick inside me the devious ...


5 評論, 534 瀏覽次數, 28 票 ,4.47 分數
leggyredhead 66 女性
67 文章
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Safety Issues   2004-09-18

I recently responded to something written by a submi ssive and posted under questions here. This submissive wrote in to say that based on online and phone interaction she met a Dominant from New York who put her in the hospital for eight days. She made reference to scening with him while he was heavily under the influence of alcohol. I have worked with victims of physical and sexual assault ...


0 評論, 255 瀏覽次數, 31 票 ,7.36 分數
ratormo 50 男性
4 文章
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youngman/olderwoman   2004-09-15

I am a youngman and I am interested to date older women. Call it a fetish, but I really think that older women has a lot to offer compare to younger women. Here's a few : 1. OLDER WOMEN MORE CONFIDENT - THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, WHETHER IT'S SEX OR COMPANIONSHIP. <br> <br> 2. OLDER WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE - THEY DON'T DEPEND ON A MAN TO PAY FOR THEM, THAT MEANS ...


0 評論, 164 瀏覽次數, 12 票 ,4.04 分數
PASilverTop2 75 男性
12 文章
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Pre-Scene Negotiations   2004-07-30

I’ve been giving this list to my fem sub acquaintances and, over the past few weeks the response I got the most was “Whoa, thanks for telling me that! I would never have thought of it!” So, I thought I’d post it to the general public. Some of these are thing that you probably wouldn’t think of, but that doesn’t make them any less important. I’m going to talk about ...


1 評論, 376 瀏覽次數, 69 票 ,9.29 分數
Gwyd 54 男性
2 文章
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Where to meet. Response   2004-07-20

When I meet a prospective partner for the first time, it is always in a public place. Coffee houses are nice because the athmosphere is relatively quiet and relaxed, you can sit close and talk, get to know a person, yet it is public enough for you to call for help if they turn out to be a little too agressive. It's also pretty cheap (The cost of a couple of cups of coffee) and if it is ...


0 評論, 73 瀏覽次數, 41 票 ,9.27 分數
fireflymster 73 男性
2 文章
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Using common sense   2004-07-18

Here is a simple yet effective safety idea for future 'dates' and especially bondage submissives. If and when you finally agree to meet make a note of where you are meeting (make it a public place so you have witnesses to your meeting) get as many of your partners's details and proof of identity and post them to yourself (at home or suitable pickup) this would deter most of the unsavoury ...


0 評論, 109 瀏覽次數, 22 票 ,6.61 分數
Wolfman228 55 男性
3 文章
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Mrs. Hannibal Lecter???   2004-07-05

I've recently had an email encounter with someone from this website who is a Dom. SHE had invited me to her network. I'm a little frightened of this because when I checked a profile under her AOL account it was all in some type of code and I've seen the word "Cannibal" in it. Just wanted to give a heads up to the fellas and ladies here. You can't be too shore of who you will meet out ...


3 評論, 287 瀏覽次數, 36 票 ,7.21 分數
LifesAdventure 38 男性
5 文章
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RE. Dating Safety   2004-04-05

OMG what the hell is wrong with this guy. That sounds like he died and went straight to Alt heaven lol. But I suppose if that isnt for you, people should be careful and thoroughly find out what their getting themselves into.


0 評論, 36 瀏覽次數, 25 票 ,5.90 分數
GinaMarie2 71 女性
1 文章
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Tens unit safety   2004-04-02

Number one it is never a good idea to use a physical device such as a tens unit. It is used for physical therapy. That device could cause your muscles to go into spasms. It could also make blood vessels contract and not in a good way. It can cause real bad pain if put into the hands of the wrong person. I have a tens unit for a shoulder injury and it has instructions on the correct way of ...


0 評論, 54 瀏覽次數, 45 票 ,7.90 分數
Demspotis 49 男性
5 文章
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Novices might want to train in groups   2004-03-26

More so than in other relationships, submissives and masochists inevitably take particular risks in meeting someone new. And it's worse for novices. In this light, I want to praise the bravery of all who voluntarily enter a relationship as a submissive. It is always an act of courage to submit yourself to the attentions of us dominants. <br> One way (among many options) for ...


0 評論, 66 瀏覽次數, 68 票 ,8.00 分數
TallNKinkyGuy 47 男性
3 文章
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When Meeting Someone, It is Always Good to Take Precautions   2004-01-28

I think many of us- both men and women- are intimidated by the idea that we might somehow compromise our safety and security if we "date strangers from the net". <br> Many years ago, if you were to tell a friend that you had met someone on the net, their first reaction might be something along the lines of "So you're really THAT desperate?". But as more and more of us have ...


0 評論, 218 瀏覽次數, 118 票 ,9.35 分數
SweetThing34 54 女性
22 文章
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It could have happened to me   2004-01-19

There is a book entitled "Anyone You Want Me To Be" I suggest...eveyrone buy it Dom and sub alike. The reasons I will go into now. <br> When I was a brand new submissive, I made about every error one could make. I met someone claiming to be a Dom on AOL...He lied about being married and having the usual things I had found out leter. He wanted me to come out to Nebraska and ...


2 評論, 253 瀏覽次數, 79 票 ,9.59 分數
suzykitten 57 女性
1 文章
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my enslavement   2002-12-01

I was coming from the store after picking up a couple packs of smokes. As I came up the street I saw a bunch of cop cars on the street in front of the crib. I stood at the corner watching hoping they weren;t at my place. Soon I saw two cops dragging my boyfreind out and throwing him into a car. I knew then going home wasn';t a good choice. I walked the streets for a bit finally going ...


0 評論, 281 瀏覽次數, 308 票 ,8.25 分數