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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Alternative Lifestyle Singles.
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SubTeddy0417 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Just gotta know - 8/25/2019

Really now how do u really ever know> I meam there are thousands of mistress' out there. Some claim to be mistress' or goddess' and all of them are always atleast one state away. So how does one who wants training go about finding a mistress without traveling . I am a good and loyal soul and without a doubt am a great candidate for slavery and . but I want not to have to because I ...

19 response(s), 28 votes
huey12345 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
MO - 8/21/2019

where are the best swingers nights in MO?

7 response(s), 17 votes
Daddy2FuckUUp 64 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Do you wish you'd gotten into kink earlier? - 8/18/2019

As a relatively late starter I often wonder how things might have been different if I'd started . Any thoughts?

42 response(s), 64 votes
SilverVixen2550 59 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Can I block members on this site? - 8/15/2019

I am being pestered by someone and I told the person to leave me alone, but the person won't stop. Can I block this member?

7 response(s), 9 votes
marriedmaster70 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Help with sub wife - 8/11/2019

. I wouldn't myself an experienced , but I'm learning. My wife is submissive me and I am looking for some advice / ideas for more ideas of fun scenes explore. This is not a "kneel in the corning with your nose just touching the wall for an hour" or a "you fucking suck his cock you choke on it" type of /sub relationship. She is submissive ME sexually. She already ...

10 response(s), 18 votes
MastROfPupets 56 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
IMC wont work for you? There is another option, use our Group Chat, All ALT users welcome. - 8/10/2019

IMC wont work you? There is another option, use our , All ALT users welcome. <br><br> Join ALT Website Community Feedback , ALT Website Community Feedback <br><br> h t t p s : / / alt.com/intgroups/gi44948/acshow_group.html? <br><br> This group has formed because ALT Website services are failing. <br><br> We have a group room ...

34 response(s), 61 votes
Iluvsitwet 38 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Chat messed up? - 8/9/2019

Is messed up for everyone else too? <br><br> Seems like most chats dont go through and there are no free chats anymore

42 response(s), 43 votes
Daddy2FuckUUp 64 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Favorite Gag - 8/8/2019

Have you got a favorite gag? Either to use or have used on you. What makes it special? Personally I like ring and ball gags that encourage a lot of drool.

27 response(s), 57 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
A SEPERATED LADY...sending gifts and then blocking?. - 8/4/2019

A seperated lady createsid on social sites. Asks for friendship. Once accepted her friendship first she for a couple of days makes relation asking many details. Then she tells she is to send you some costly to you. You say no to . Then she tells as a token of love she is interested to send some alongwith her some undisclosed document and items and sends to the person concerned through ...

21 response(s), 31 votes
Mastermature4 73 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Up Above the Fray - 8/3/2019

Have you done it on a old windmill platform? Climbed up the ladder and laid your lady down on that narrow wooden floor?

12 response(s), 23 votes
Submarriner1 67 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Does pressure of results lead to dating anxiety, and frustration? - 8/3/2019

I read complaints about how ineffective alt has been as a meeting website, and yet I have found both success and failure with the people on this site. Yes there is frustration with the website, but I believe we are here because it has a good of like minded people on site. So is it people's lack of instant reward, or the pressure hook up with everyone they write that leads this ...

12 response(s), 24 votes
knott4milfs 30 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
why not - 8/2/2019

looking to meet and why would anyone not want to meet. the whole reason we are here is to discuss our kink and get to meet new people to try them soooo why not meeting and trying it

17 response(s), 23 votes
kdom4whores2 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Free IM's Gone ? - 7/27/2019

standard members used to have 5 free IM's per day has this been removed as it wants to charge me points or upgrade to gold to chat on IM now even when its the only one I have done that day. Does anyone know if alt have changed this or is it another bug?

47 response(s), 51 votes
Mastermature4 73 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Have you done it in a soft rain?? - 7/25/2019

Given that it’s a , but raining gently (no thunder)it can be quite erotic. It is similar to getting it on with a you’ve pissed all over and similar to a amply endowed with body lotion. Slippery is sexy.

13 response(s), 27 votes
67burak67 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
i dont understand - 7/23/2019

I'm not watching anyway... i don't understand

11 response(s), 18 votes
67burak67 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
i dont understand - 7/23/2019

" Standard Members May View One Video at a Time <br><br> Premium Members can connect to multiple webcams and enjoy unlimited access to profiles, email, photos and sexy video introductions. Upgrade now and get 6 months FREE! <br><br> Note: Standard members might need to wait 5 to 20 seconds after closing one webcam before they can open another. Upgrade now to get ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Finallymetime 58 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM Not Working - 7/22/2019

A friend referred me to this site and we are both gold members, we tried to test the IM so I could learn how to use it, but I am not receiving any messages. <br><br> I have already, deleted my cookies and updated my preferences.. Is there something else I can do?

34 response(s), 47 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Cam Picture - 7/22/2019

How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam?

8 response(s), 17 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Cam Picture - 7/22/2019

How do I get a different picture that is displayed when I am on cam?

1 response(s), 4 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
CAM BAN - 7/22/2019

I accidently banned a friend from my cam .How do I let him view my cam again ?

5 response(s), 14 votes
dog4milfs43 41 M
1 question
Score 0.0
bdsm - 7/21/2019

what are woman weakness. and what do woman look for in a men when meeting for just sex

7 response(s), 12 votes
Iluvsitwet 38 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
IM always costing points? - 7/18/2019

Anyone else having trouble where it shows I have chats left but makes me use points each time?

61 response(s), 55 votes
retired425 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cams - 7/18/2019

when trying to view a cam , it says I have to wait to view another cam, this message has popped up for several days now. Any way to clear it? Thanks

9 response(s), 16 votes
AlexDomBBC 55 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
What is your fascination with Big Black Cocks ? Just Asking - 7/17/2019

What is the fascination with Big Black Cocks ? Black Superiority over whites ? TPE Ttotal Power Exchange ?

15 response(s), 18 votes
ropeloco 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
so many scammers - 7/11/2019

this is my second time around on this site. years ago i met the love of my life on here, unfortunately she recently passed away so i thought i'd try again...so far it's been a total drag, the last three women who contacted me ended up asking for ..it sucks and i'm about ready to give up....is there anyone real on here or am i just fooling myself ?

36 response(s), 40 votes
hunnybunny88 35 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Location, location, location - 7/8/2019

A question came up a while back about favorite sex positions, and it got me thinking. <br><br> Where's the kinkiest place you've ever had sex (vanilla or otherwise)?

1 response(s), 0 votes
BoundForceOrgasm 26 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Do you find the dik piks annoying? - 7/5/2019

Are dik piks what people want too see? Or do you wish that guys did not post this as their profile photo?

54 response(s), 58 votes
Lrd_Strap 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fish ad - 7/4/2019

What is it with the HD fish ad?

10 response(s), 17 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Way too many bots! - 6/27/2019

Seriously, am I the only one getting bombarded by the same exact message from different bots on here? stuff like "hey ALT.com now at gmA_ildot .." or "do you like BDSM..." or even I love oral but hate condoms..." It cannot be any more obvious or dumb yet it really makes the site and IM real irritating and drains the energy out of everyone.

25 response(s), 30 votes
missionfreak 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Black Cams, how to get over this? - 6/27/2019

Hi all I can see are black cams, but others say that other free member are able to see cams. Are there some settings I need to change somewhere?

13 response(s), 19 votes