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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Alternative Lifestyle Singles.
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W1ll1878 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Lost - 1/28/2020

I have been on the site now for over a year. I have had no luck at all. I mean I have talked to to some women on here but , no luck in finding what I am looking for. Let alone meet some one that’s not a bot . What am I doing wrong ?

13 response(s), 32 votes
clitboy00 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Saddest part? - 1/27/2020

In the quest for points, what is the easiest way to get them? And what happens when you run of them?

5 response(s), 11 votes
SexyPerth 75 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
For female subs - 1/27/2020

What are your expectations re financial arrangements if you live with a Dom / Master? Is it usual for such a person to work for employment? <br><br> Thanks

4 response(s), 42 votes
SexyPerth 75 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020

What are the usual financial arrangements for a live in salve / domestic servant? <br><br> Thanks

6 response(s), 30 votes
SexyPerth 75 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020

Has anyone ever brought a female from another country, and if so what were the financial arrangements? <br><br> Thanks

2 response(s), 17 votes
juanstud 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Monday curiosity - 1/26/2020

What was your best orgasm like and who was it with?

9 response(s), 34 votes
juanstud 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
best time - 1/26/2020

Do you prefer at night, in the morning, mid-afternoon, or NOW?

7 response(s), 32 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Another question ....for you point lovers.. - 1/26/2020

And please give your very first thought as mine was...omg!, wtf? and like that song from Prince Karm, "Later Bitches" <br><br> So anyway, there I am replying some emails and all of a sudden I get that little box that says, this person flirted with me and when looking at the picture there is a sexy man holding a huge gun wider than of those ...

18 response(s), 54 votes
chcds 46 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Should a sissie show his face in a profile - 1/26/2020

Should a sissie show his in profile picture yes or no

7 response(s), 24 votes
Jenn1759 40 F
1 question
Score 0.0
worthy sub? - 1/24/2020

how can i get a worthy sub i can train the way i believe is right?

16 response(s), 56 votes
Newu21 27 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What's an ambassador - 1/22/2020

Just wonder what's an ambassador on here how do you become one and what does it do for you

7 response(s), 18 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 2.1
PROFILES I VIEWED - 1/18/2020

Only recently I became aware and started checking this section on the site. <br><br> I have to say that I am flabbergasted at the amount of profiles on there that I have NEVER looked at. <br><br> I understand that if the cursor passes over a profile, or I view them on the cams or IM, it registers, but there are profiles of people in other countries that do not even appear ...

15 response(s), 54 votes
bbcinorlando 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
ORLANDO LADIES - 1/13/2020

any orlando ladies enjoy creampies and anal sex?

10 response(s), 34 votes
Dwtp 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Read profiles - 1/12/2020

Do gold members every read the profiles they message? I ask for local people or some one willing to come to me. I get messages from all over the us!

17 response(s), 50 votes
readytogo12399 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
new to this - 1/12/2020

sorry ask but what is a

7 response(s), 30 votes
Bumtingler 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Use of everyday articles......or bespoke dildoes? - 1/11/2020

I am curious to know what fellow BDSM aficionados feel about the merits of using everyday articles rather then the use of designer dildoes. In the past I have enjoyed using fruit and vegetables, kitchen items, toys, and obviously bottles and cosmetic containers. I have also missed this up, with dildoes of various shapes and sizes! <br><br> For the most part, I have had the best ...

12 response(s), 37 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
On being "Cuckold" ? - 1/11/2020

So anyway, I do have a serious question about the word "cuckold" and yes, forgive me if I am spelling it wrong because I am always thinking, I am. <br><br> I went to Berlin, Germany with another member from this site and sincerely, enjoyed an amazing time with a few flaws, that reminded me, I am not perfect. <br><br> ...

22 response(s), 60 votes
Mastergary54321 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
I have a Question - 1/9/2020

How many times do you get asked , what are you looking for on here

31 response(s), 30 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
For male slaves... - 1/8/2020

Why would an owner find you pleasing and why do you want to be owned? Yeah, I know it's a simple question really but I have been such, I know what I dreamt about and what it actually was and so I guess I am interested with the male prospective I guess you can say. <br><br> But anyway for some points earn them and talk to me about what slavery means to ...

40 response(s), 47 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
I have a question..... - 1/8/2020

Can you tell me a very dirty story and I do not want a long one. If you do not know any stories maybe a good dirty joke or knock knock games. ...

29 response(s), 49 votes
boatsman11 64 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Moods - 1/5/2020

Is there anything with more changeable moods the us humans ?

10 response(s), 19 votes
atong4u 74 M
7 questions
Score 0.0
Messages - 1/4/2020

Just wondering if others get messages in Spanish ? I don't read it or speak it but my messages only show up in Spanish Was talking to a lady then her message was suddenly in Spanish ??

9 response(s), 33 votes
Bottomslut00 58 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
piercings - 1/3/2020

whats the best piercings for bondage

17 response(s), 33 votes
_Torque 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Satisfaction - 1/3/2020

What is most satisfying in D/s relationship ?

13 response(s), 24 votes
rott654321milfs 44 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
2020 its here - 12/31/2019

seen like 2019 came fast and was gone that fast year fly here but looking forward to what 2020 bring to this site

11 response(s), 21 votes
rott654321milfs 44 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
taboo - 12/29/2019

is taboo something that woman like and want to try there alot of taboos what is your favarite and what turn you on the most about kinky sex

26 response(s), 39 votes
sagelostprophet2 69 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 - 12/28/2019

If you had one SEXUAL desire awarded to you in 2020 what would it be? <br><br> I mean something you always wanted to do but haven't had the opportunity yet. Maybe due to lack of willing partner or because you were too shy to ask.

26 response(s), 38 votes
fares70 46 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Happy year is ready for the new year - 12/26/2019

To be ready in the new year. I hope that you will get everything you need and look forward to awakening your deep, dark, suppressed and enjoyable fantasies in the new year and happy birthday to all.

9 response(s), 35 votes
sagelostprophet2 69 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
If you were totally new to ALT - 12/24/2019

If you were totally new to ALT and this was your first introduction, would you even stay here a day?

32 response(s), 53 votes
Naughtysub4uruse 52 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
15 points - 12/23/2019

Anyone else now being charged 15 points to IM?

19 response(s), 31 votes