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I hate that I have to open with this but there are way too many scammers on this site and I don't want to waste my time dealing with them. So to that end:
1. I will never ask for nor will I share money, share personal identification, or do any potentially damaging activities under [U]ANY[/U] circumstances without meeting in person first.
2. I do not build relationships via text. If you are unable/unwilling to talk on the phone and meet in person, move on. Don't waste our time.
3. If you are just looking to hook-up, move on. I am looking for serious, not casual relationships.
4. Read my entire profile as I will read yours. If it's not worth your time to learn about me, you aren't serious and not worth my time.
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I am a Dominant man and must be dominant to my submissive for it to be a true and honest relationship. I am not a Dominant from want or desire. I am a Dominant because that is what I am. I am intelligent, caring, empathetic, trustworthy, honest, and open-minded. I am not just strong and willful, firm and decisive, having a clear vision and sense of direction in life. I am also sensitive, insecure and emotional. These are not weaknesses. One cannot be brave without fear, decisive without knowing insecurity, strong without being emotional, successful without knowing failure. You cannot have one without the other. Being a Dominant is not to be without what some consider weaknesses, it is to have them, know them, and continue to push to rise above them. To be the rock that stands firm against the raging storm. To be completely committed. To be true to my word.
I am not complete when standing alone. What is the point of standing firm against the storm without purpose? I am only complete when I am with my submissive. I stand firm to guide, protect and cherish her. She is my center and my purpose. With my submissive I continuously strive to be better. I must be there for her, nurturing, protecting, guiding and teaching. I demand obedience and I expect to be pleased. I reward her when she pleases me and punish her when she displeases me. I show her discipline.
I always seek to know everything about her. Likes and dislikes, strengths and weaknesses, what makes her happy and what makes her sad, what excites her and what disgusts her, how to bring her to new heights of ecstasy and always know and respect her boundaries. I know her secrets as she will know mine. We are completely open and honest with each other. I gladly spend my time listening and learning about her and from her. I appreciate everything about her, especially the gift she gives to me of herself. I push her to be better. She is a part of me as my heart is a part of my body. Her touch ignites fires within me and her gaze pulls at my soul.
Ideally...
Our relationship is not just about the flesh or the mind or the spirit. Our relationship is all that and more. We seek to be two halves to a whole, each unique and strong but a perfect fit to each other and stronger together. There are no walls between us. We are not you and me, we are us. Be that in each other's arms, halfway across the world from each other, or on different sides of the universe. We know no bounds of time, space, or planes of existence. We have been seeking each other from before we knew we existed and once we find each other, we will be together from that day until the end of days.
Ideally...
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My Ideal Person:
She will show me that even though she finds pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to her Dominant in a loving relationship, she is not weak or stupid. She is a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what she wants out of her life. She does not serve out of shame or weakness but out of pride and strength.
She will look to her loving Dominant for guidance and protection, for never will she be more complete than when He is with her. She knows that He will protect her body, her mind, and her soul with His strength and wisdom. He is everything to her, as she is everything to Him. His touch awakens her and His thoughts free her. Only by serving Him does she find complete freedom and joy. His punishments may be harsh, but she accepts them thankfully, knowing that He has her best interests always foremost in His mind. If He desires her body for pleasure, she shall joyfully give it to Him and take pleasure herself from knowing that she has brought Him happiness.
However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of this relationship. The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship. Her body is His, and if He says she is beautiful, then she is. No matter what she looks like to others, she is beautiful in His eyes, and because of that, she holds her head high. If He says she is His precious jewel, then she is that, a beautiful, sparkling gem. If He says that she is His pet, His slave, His sub, His woman, then she is those too and as wanton and dirty as He wants her to be. Her mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know only as He can. She has no secrets from Him, for secrets are a thing that would keep her from being more perfectly His. Secrets would put a wall up between her Dominant and herself, and she do not want walls. His lessons are not always ones she would seek on her own, but they are lessons He has decided that she needs, and so she learns from Him.
Her soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever her skin could be when she kneels naked at His feet. Never a moment goes by when she does not feel His presence, be He miles away or standing over her. The anguish of her soul that she feels when she disappoints Him is harder to bear than any physical anguish she feel could feel. She is grateful that he cares enough about her to spend His time and energy so freely on her. She has the job to feel, to experience, to let herself go and abandon everything to Him. She is His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously. She is a submissive woman. She is proud to call herself that; her submission is a gift that she does not give lightly and can only be given to the One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold. Only to her Dominant, who has that strength, will she give herself fully, because she is strong and proud.
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