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This is probably the wrong place to try to find this but I'll put this up for a while in case anybody is interested, I do have other avenues which I expect more from.
You are, a young female, probably early 20's and have a bit of a fixation with regards to being controlled, dream and fantasise about somebody taking over and running large aspects of your life. This is more than a sexual thing, though that will be included to some degree, it's more about a much bigger picture across your entire life. This is not a current whim, but a deeply held desire and something you want to live over a longer term.
I am a male in my mid 50's who has a fetish for control over others. I want to pervade your life over time, starting small but slowly influencing every part of it and every decision. I can be stern, even cruel and have a slight sadist tendency but can also be kind, and generous when in the right mood. To be clear, I am not looking to ruin your life, just to be involved in every aspect, pushing you to do things you may not wish to, things for my own gratification but also things that will better you, your life and your prospects.
I would expect there to be discussions at the start about how this begins, and probably a trial period which would need to extend to some weeks, once it starts in earnest however you are 'all in' and you will over time default to me for guidance and instruction. You will be willing to accept punishment and discipline as a given when you fail to deliver and will be expected to abide by a set of rules at all times. Meetings in person could be frequent or infrequent depending upon location and desires but you will be expected to prepare in advance of any meeting, written and practical assignments are likely to be given, possibly just recounting your adherance to rules and experiences or occasionally something more.
I'm London based but would be prepared for anywhere in the UK with the right person, I'm not expecting you to abstain from sex with others, not have boyfriends or girlfriends but I want input into decisions. My last long term relationship of this nature eventually finished after she had her first with her relatively new husband. She didn't know him when we began.
I will push you, this is not something to be enjoyed for a couple of days a week, or picked up and then dropped as you feel, this will be a complete lifestyle. This would suit somebody who yearns for control over them but who also struggles with motivation or self esteem, again I'm looking to make you stronger and better, not break you.
For those doubting the likelihood of me finding this, my last relationship of this type lasted over 9 years, there are people who wish for this though it has to be conceded they are few and far between.
If anybody is interested then please get in touch, but be prepared to have some deep and intimate conversations before anything goes ahead, this has to be right for both people. I don't just want a person, I want the right person and will not go back into this until I have found her. If you are older than suggested above but still feel that this is something that appeals to you then still feel free to contact me, I'm not fixated on any aspect of this, it's about people rather than a set of boundaries.
Thank you for reading.
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