I am a Dominant man who believes in the concept of Spiritual Sexuality...using the intensity of intimate physical and emotional contact and the juxtaposition of pain and pleasure to allow one to be "in the moment" and have an experience of self. I am a very empathetic man and immerse myself in "getting" where my sub is during play and use it to create that physical and emotional state called subspace where she can be free of the mind and have incredible multiple orgasms. Aftercare involves conversations about the experience and how to achieve that freedom from the mind when she chooses.
I am a responsible Dom who values submission and offering of body, mind and spirit as the treasure it is. Respect and trust are obviously paramount and goes BOTH ways...and takes time. I am a romantic man and love aftercare and cuddling. I am a gentleman at all times with a sadistic streak in the bedroom.
I seek a sub for a LTR who is uninhibited, willing to explore personal limits and able to communicate on many levels. She would be strong, intelligent, attractive and self-aware. D/s is the Yin to her daily Yang as she would be my partner in life and walk beside me, working with me to build a happy life.
She would serve me in ways beyond the physical. Her personal journey in my care allows me to see correlations in my own life and grow with her. She would be empathetic and communicate well in those times when I need her guidance. We would grow together.
I am truly in service to those who serve me....Being a Dom, her Master, her partner ...humbles me.
Vanilla Interests: I love to cook, play cribbage, do crosswords, hike, bike and work out. I am a boater and member of a yacht club. I love all types of music and am a damn good dancer!
ENFP
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
86% Rigger
81% Degrader
77% Daddy/Mommy
75% Owner
73% Brat tamer
72% Master/Mistress
71% Sadist
64% Experimentalist
54% Voyeur
48% Exhibitionist
45% Vanilla
31% Non-monogamist
27% Primal (Hunter)
0% Ageplayer
...if you want a real relationship contact me.
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