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nettleman1978  
42yo man, can be sub or dom, seeks female/couple for mutual fun.
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Member Since: December 21, 2018

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   July 30, 1978
(45 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Oxford, Oxfordshire, United Kingdom
Relocate?:   No
Height:   6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Have Children: No
Want Children : No
Occupation: Van driver
Religion: Not applicable





   
45 year old Man in Oxford, Oxfordshire, United Kingdom Looking For: Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Groups

Profile for nettleman1978
I am a straight 42 year old 6ft tall male of average build, seeking no fees or tribute mutual fun with a like minded woman or couple. I have a completely 50/50 sub/dom switch personality, and am happy to adopt either side of my personality according to the other person's desires, but I would stick to that role, whether dominant or submissive, unless you specifically wanted to play from both sides. As a sub, I can take and thoroughly enjoy receiving a really good beating, and have an adventurous imagination with regard to whatever other torments you could inflict on me. Candle wax, electrocution, heat torture and face sitting are all things you could enjoy doing to me, to name just a few. At the right time of year, you could even have fun tormenting me with freshly picked stinging nettles - ouch! As a dom, I can be an extremely strict master, requiring total obedience, with a very sore bottom being the result of any deviation from my demands. I am, however, a very caring master, and any treatment you received would always be given with a total regard to your enjoyment of the proceedings. I believe in erotic dominant play, not bullying. Of course as my sub, intense pleasure would always come with any pain, and I am very skilled in delivering such pleasure, especially with my mouth and tongue, but you would have to earn this and understand that your pleasure would be mine to give and control, as I see fit. I have a friendly outgoing nature and a good sense of humour. I am fairly well educated, polite and respectful, and can be very discreet, which I would also require in return please. At 6 foot tall, I have an average build, although I do have a little bit of extra padding around my tummy, but nothing too unsightly, and I have a nice round soft bottom perfect for taking a good thrashing. Unfortunately I cannot accommodate any meeting, so travel by me to your location would be the only option. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I am hoping to meet a woman below the age of 60, or couple M/F or F/F, to enjoy mutual erotic fun of any nature, but strictly with no fees either way.
I would hope that any initial meeting could lead to an ongoing arrangement, if we both found that we enjoyed each others company.

If you are dominant in nature, then as well as giving me a bloody good thrashing, you could also subject me to other forms of torture, such as forcing me to sit on a hot water bottle for a minimum set period of time - don't laugh as it's a lot more painful than you might think, and is an excellent way to start a session off. You could also electrocute my bum and surrounding area with a device I own that gives a sharp electric shock , a bit like a low powered cattle prod (and much more powerful than a violet wand). Finally, at the right time of year, you could brush and rub my bum and genitals with stinging nettles, and I am sure I don't need to tell you that this hurts!
As a sub, my top fantasy is to be laid naked on my back with my ankles bound and spread wide and high above my head, while a dominant woman sits on my face, facing towards my vulnerable genitals hanging upside down, with her pussy covering my mouth, and my nose to breath through up the crack of her bum. She could then take hold of a thick bunch of nettles, and demand that I give her oral pleasure. If at any time she felt that I was not trying hard enough, she could then lightly brush (or perhaps vigorously rub?) my genitals with these nettles, to encourage me in the strongest way to try harder.

If, alternatively, you have a submissive personality, then I would love to become your strict, but caring Master. You would need to be willing to do as your are told, and know that you would get a sore bottom every time you were a naughty girl. When I am not around, I would require you to contact me to ask for permission before any time that you wanted to do naughty things to yourself, and you could expect a good hiding if I ever discovered that you had done so without first seeking my consent.
I would require you to wear naughty little toys inside you if we were out in public, that would drive you crazy while trying to pretend that all was normal to everyone around, and when I got you home, I would inspect your knickers to see what effect it had had on you. If it was apparent that you had enjoyed it too much, then another sore bottom would be the end result.
Naughty girls have to be disciplined, and you should expect to receive this in abundance, but always with a close eye watching the level of your enjoyment. You would enjoy every moment of it, and never feel like I was taking advantage of your trust, or bullying you.

I hope we can meet and have some fun together.

Please let me emphasise that I am strictly seeking contact with members who wish to meet for mutual enjoyment and fun only, and not with anyone who is looking to make any kind of financial gain from such a meeting. This includes any doms who claim to want to get together for mutual fun with no fees or tribute required, but who then want me to pay for the use of a dungeon facility. I am wise to this scam, where the dom and the dungeon have a mutual agreement to share the income from such an arrangement, and I won't be falling for it, so if this is how you operate, then please don't waste either of our time, because I assure you it will not lead to anything. However, if you are genuinely seeking some fun for your own enjoyment only, then please do get in touch.
Best Wishes, Alan.


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