|
i am a very calm loving woman that loves to be happy in life. i am the type of woman that enjoy sex with a good man with good sense of humor. i mean someone that knows where to touch at the right time,.....I’m an experienced, intelligent, creative, confident, firm, strict, but fare American Dom living comfortably outside of Venice, Italy; and I lean heavily to,being a sadist.
I’ve been in and out of the lifestyle for years. Trained slaves/subs/little from to just the bedroom/house and from newbies to experienced.
I am strict, firm but fair. Patient, some might say, "long suffering". I am challenging. I believe in rules, duties, chores, (domestic and sexual) punishments and rewards. I have high standards (but not impossible) for dress and conduct both inside and outside the house. When we go out I like my submissive in high heels, stockings, lingerie, nice clothes.
Over the years, I’ve found 4 things to be important:
1) Honesty
2) Trust
3) Communication
4) A strong vanilla foundation
The last one is important because more than once a partner and I have had to suspend our roles because life circumstances that require full attention, would make trying to maintain a dynamic impossible. Having built a foundation on the non-kink things in common has always helped to retain the overall relationship.
To me honesty, trust and communication are of greater importance in the kink than vanilla. I am a stronger believer and practitioner of thorough negotiations, safe words and safe gestures.
After negotiations, it is my responsibility to adhere to the limits of the slave/sub/lg. Pushing limits ONLY after a thorough discussion.
Intelligence, creativity, and strong grounding on the vanilla are very important to me.
I was a professional business woman , I am also a skilled crafts in metal and wood. So, I’m hardwired to engage both the cerebral and the tactile... i want someone that will always be honey in everything and ready for something serious . not just someone that want to chat for fun
[if254 1]
My Ideal Person:
i want a very calm and decent person
|
3,727 Members Online NOW!
