A Real Master
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Posted:May 23, 2009 1:56 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2015 9:09 pm 14770 Views
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Saw this on a newsgroup and thought I'd share it. Enjoy
A REAL Master will not boast about his "greatness" but will show you.
A REAL Master has no need to shout, scream, or yell but can command attention with a whisper.
A REAL Master understands that He has to earn the sub/slave's trust.
A REAL Master has integrity and will never lie or mislead his slave.
A REAL Master has character and by His actions shows He is worthy regardless of whether or not He is in BDSM.
A REAL Master abides by a code of Honor.
A REAL Master is loyal and will keep His slave close to His heart.
A REAL Master understands that He is not perfect and will make mistakes and is man enough to take responsibility for His actions.
A REAL Master knows that every slave is unique and that there is no cookie cutter one size fits all because every slave is an individual person.
A REAL Master treats others around Him with respect and will never be rude or behave poorly especially in public situations. (i.e. being rude in restaurants, etc.)
A REAL Master has patience and appreciates the value of it.
A REAL Master is slow to anger and is strong enough to practice self-control.
A REAL Master is emotionally, mentally and psychologically stable.
A REAL Master does not blame the slave when He has a bad day.
A REAL Master will have others who could vouche for him, and does not have an bad reputation.
A REAL Master would never behave in a way that would cause His slave to lose faith in Him.
A REAL Master knows what He wants out of life and the direction He is going.
A REAL Master understands there is a time and place for everything.
A REAL Master will protect and defend His slave.
A REAL Master will focus on the positive qualities of His slave and would bring out the best in His slave.
A REAL Master would cherish His slave and always give 100% to the relationship.
A REAL Master does not need to give himself a title, he does not demand a title, but is ACTUALLY WORTHY OF THE TITLE MASTER.
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Where have all the REAL people gone
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Posted:Jan 23, 2007 9:43 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2015 9:10 pm 13710 Views
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I have been troubled by more and more of what I see online these days. People who are so into the fantasy that they loose touch with reality. Maybe it is just that online is so "virtual" that people see it like video games ... you know shoot them .... come back tomorrow and things are just like before so you do it again. Only problem is that here the bits and bytes are another person, whether we want to admit it or not.
I have been in the online world for almost 20 years now. It seems that the problem just keeps getting worse and worse. And in the BDSM online world that can be even more dangerous. So many folks I meet ... not just newbies but so called experienced folks .... have never taken the time to study the craft. Many say Castle What when you mention Castle Realm (one of my favorite resource sites). Some even negate the foundations that existed before the days of Internet saying that is just old school this is a new day.
Those principles .. not just safe, sane and consenual...but the nature of a Dom's responsibility ... the need for a sub to be equipped with knowledge among others came about for a reason. That reason being that we are all real people in this lifestyle. At our cores this is all about meeting the needs of our selves and our partner AND finding along the way acceptance we crave from real people. No matter what roles I see this to be the case.
An old saying about technology goes something like if you don't know how to do something with out the technology ... then what makes you think you can do it just because you have the technology. If you can understand the basics of this lifestyle and practice them without the world of email and chat then how do you know if you are real in this virtual world? Don't get me wrong the technology can be a great tool if used correctly.
So I ask where have all the real people gone? The answer, I think, is that the are out there ... just look past the keyboard and screen.
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