Slavery is...
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Posted:Apr 20, 2010 8:27 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2022 8:35 pm 43230 Views
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I came across this bdsm poem online and enjoyed it so I thought I'd share.
"Slavery is / not..."
(Author: slave david stein, under the Guardianship of Master Steve Sampson © 1998 )
slavery is not about suffering . . .
. . . slavery is about service.
slavery is not about humiliation . . .
. . . slavery is about humility.
slavery is not about pain . . .
. . . slavery is about being present.
slavery is not about being used . . .
. . . slavery is about being of use.
slavery is not about control . . .
. . . slavery is about letting go.
slavery is not about your desires . . .
. . . slavery is about giving to others.
slavery is not about abuse . . .
. . . slavery is about acceptance.
slavery is not about proving anything . . .
. . . slavery is about being real.
slavery is not about contempt . . .
. . . slavery is about respect.
slavery is not about how you look . . .
. . . slavery is about how you care.
slavery is not about denying yourself . . .
. . . slavery is about being open.
slavery is not about punishment . . .
. . . slavery is about discipline.
slavery is not about being unable to escape . . .
. . . slavery is about being committed.
slavery is not about submission . . .
. . . slavery is about obedience.
slavery is not about fear . . .
. . . slavery is about trust.
slavery is not about sex . . .
. . . slavery is about love.
slavery is not about pleasure . . .
. . . slavery is about happiness.
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Tired of seeing worthless cock pics
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Posted:Aug 26, 2008 11:33 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2021 8:23 pm 41498 Views
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Why are there now so many men on here with cock photos as their main photo on their profile? You wouldn't walk up to a woman on the street with a bag over your head and your cock sticking out, would you? It's just plain crude.
Why are there so many men who think this is a sex personals site and have no clue about bdsm and alternative lifestyles? Or worse who say they're dom or a switch on their profile but they have no clue and just want sex?
This site has gone so down hill. Why don't they all just go to the sex personals version, adultfriendfinder?
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Club FEM events
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Posted:Jul 23, 2008 8:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2022 8:37 pm 43160 Views
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Hi,
This past weekend I hosted a Kinky Movie Night for the FemDomme/malesub munch I run in florida. It was great. We watched the film called "Vice & Consent" which basically interviews experienced bdsm practitioners such as Midori, Jay Wiseman and more. Everyone enjoyed it.
My next event I'm having is a FemDomme/malesub munch in Fort Lauderdale on August 23 for members of my group. We promote the loving, Female-led lifestyle between a male and a Female. Write if interested.
Mistress Lisa
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FemDom Chocolate Party for Valentine's in florida
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Posted:Feb 7, 2008 8:55 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2016 7:57 pm 41334 Views
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fyi...
I'm hosting a "Valentine's Red & Chocolate Night with show n' tell" for the FemDomme/malesub only munch I run. It's on feb. 16 in sw florida.
Any ideas for the chocolate party are welcome.
Mistress Lisa
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halloween
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Posted:Sep 5, 2007 11:52 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2016 8:00 pm 43121 Views
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I'm hosting a Haunted Halloween Costume Party in naples florida for members of my FemDomme/malesub group in October. Any ideas for games and activities are welcome.
Mistress Lisa
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FemDomme/malesub Holiday Party in FL
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Posted:Dec 2, 2006 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2022 8:37 pm 43919 Views
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fyi...
I'm hosting a "Naughty or Nice" Holiday Tea Party for my FemDomme/malesub group on Dec. 16 at 5pm in sw Florida and am seeking more people to attend and be members. The malesubs will serve the Ladies tea and snacks.
There will also be a Chinese Gift Exchange.
What is Chinese Gift Exchange?:
If you have never done a Chinese Gift exchange, here are the details. Everyone brings a gift. Price range is $5-$25, and everyone gets a
number out of the hat. We will have the presents on the table, oh, btw...wrap them please. When #1 is called up, they pick one off the table, and unwrap it, then they show it around the room, then #2 is called up, and they can either take #1's present, or they can take another one off the table. Then #3 is called up, they can take either #1 or #2's present. If they chose #1 's say for instance, they get it, and then #1 goes back up to the table and choses another one OR they can take #2's and then # 2 will have to go to the table. So basically what this boils down to, is that you can fight over the gift you want. But one gift can only be fought over 3 times, then it's dead, can't be gone anymore. Gifts can be naughty [ ] or nice. [ ] It'll be fun.
FemDom/malesub couples and singles welcome. Let Me know if you're interested and I'll tell you more about the group and event.
Mistress Lisa
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What is service?
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Posted:Oct 15, 2006 5:14 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2022 8:36 pm 45210 Views
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What is service?
What do you mean when you offer to serve? What do you mean when you offer to BE of service? What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?
Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?
Do you envision some Amazon Goddess sporting a huge strap-on taking you anally?
Do you envision yourself prancing around in some French Maid Costume and being asked to provide oral service to a Mistress?
Do you envision some woman sqatting over your helplessly bound body "forcing"
you to serve her orally?
Or do you envision being put over her knee and spanked like a naughty little boy?
Yes, nice visions aren't they? However, not one of those visions is the definition of "serve", "service" or "servitude".
Oh, I'm sure many subs consider them to be just that, but if you check your dictionaries you won't find any mention of French Maid Costumes, bondage, strap-ons, oral sex, or any other fetish you may enjoy.
In fact you won't find any mention of fetishes at all in the definitions
• Serve is defined as:
1. to work for, be a servant;
2. to act in a specific capacity;
3. to place food before, wait on;
4. to be of assistance to.
• Service is defined as:
1. the occupation or duties of a
servant;
2. the act or means of serving;
3. duties performed as an
occupation.
• Servitude is defined as:
Submission to a master; slavery.
When you offer to serve a FemDom, what you are offering (or should be offering) is the surrender of your control. You should know her well enough to trust her with your life. When you offer your servitude to her, you are telling her that you trust her judgment, you trust her to keep you safe from harm, you trust her to know what is best for both of you, you trust her decisions and desire to follow her orders and obey her in all things.
Your offer of service is your ability to let go of your ego and your free will (control) and allow her to control you.
Serving is, first and foremost, the act of making her life easier. It is compliance with all her desires, wishes, orders. Yes, BD/SM and fetish play, more than likely, will be included as part of the relationship. But
overall, the D/s aspect of the relationship will be where you have turned your control
over to her and you do as she says. It is about pampering her and catering to her.
Everyday life will be a part of this, for most people do have to work, bills do have to be paid, people need to see doctors occasionally, and dentists. Then there are family get togethers, family emergencies, social gatherings with vanilla friends and also with D/s friends. For the most part, life will seem pretty vanilla, but there will be one difference. IF you have truly submitted, then your actions will be measured by how your Mistress would feel about it. Your decisions will be based upon what you are allowed, or not allowed to decide without her permission. You will treat others with respect, but especially other women. You will consider that your actions would reflect back upon your Mistress, and therefore act in a manner that would make her proud of you. There may be other constant reminders, she may insist you wear panties under your clothes at work. But you will always remember that you have submitted to her and will honor that commitment.
How can you serve your Mistress - what are the ways?
Here are some suggestions:
-Make sure her home is clean and neat.
-Make sure her clothes are clean and neat.
-Prepare her favorite foods for her.
-Prepare her bath.
-Rub her feet after she comes in from working all day.
-Offer her a massage if her day was very stressful.
-Offer to do her manicure and pedicure.
-Have her favorite music playing or find her favorite show or movie on TV.
-Surprise her with flowers.
-Serve her coffee as soon as she gets up in the morning.
These are just a few of the ways you can serve her once you have been trained in what she wants and likes. Don't be afraid to use your imagination to surprise her (provided of course that she has no problem with you
doing this occasionally).
A happy, contented, pleased, relaxed woman is a woman who will then have no problem torturing you, using you, or even indulging you with a fetish or two that are your favorites…………just to show you how much she really appreciates your service and submission to her.
So, what are you offering?
Personal service only (oral, massage, bathing)?
Play sessions only (spankings, facesitting, strap-on, whippings, cbt)?
Domestic service only (household chores, errands)?
OR are offering the whole package?
These are the things you need to be clear about in your own mind first and foremost before approaching a Mistress and offering
to "serve" her. Along with how committed you wish to be to the D/s relationship, if
at all.
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Ladies Tea Party
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Posted:Sep 24, 2006 4:35 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2010 12:11 am 46169 Views
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Well the Ladies Tea Party that I hosted recently for my FemDomme friends was very fun. We had 4 scantily clad males (1 a sissymaid) serve delicious teas and delicate snacks to 7 dominant Ladies. It was my 3rd or 4th tea party and it was great. Some of the ladies wore beautiful victorian hats while some males kneeled at their feet and fanned them. Later came spankings for the males for their mistakes in the tea service and lovely foot massages for us Ladies. A good time was had by all. I wish every lady knew the joy of going to a Femdom/Ladies tea party. It's so good to get together with likeminded women and be served by obedient males.
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Where are the good male subs?
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Posted:Sep 24, 2006 4:21 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2010 9:52 pm 44043 Views
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Where are all the good subs at? I'm in the mood for a foot bath, to have my precious feet pampered and my toenails painted. But it seems that anyone I'm ever interested in is too far away to serve Me. (or there's married or fake subs contacting me just wasting my time). If you're interested in Me, talk to Me to see if we're a match then step up to the plate and visit me in person like others have...while you still have my interest. To those dreamers out there who so wish they could serve a Goddess but only look in their own town, you're missing out. When you look for a diamond in the rough and have the good fortune to find it, it's not always going to be in your backyard.
Mistress Lisa
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