Why should a submissive submit? (reply)
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Posted:Apr 14, 2023 1:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2023 6:23 am 8034 Views
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We don't choose this way, off the beaten
path . . It chooses us. The reason we walk
into the abyss is simple, we all seek intimacy.
How dark, taboo, forbidden depends on the
calling in your soul.
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Imagination (reply)
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Posted:Apr 13, 2023 5:37 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2023 6:48 pm 7836 Views
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Imagination can work both ways in a BDSM dynamic. It can be good and it can be bad.
Don't confuse stupidity as
bad imagination.
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Balance (reply)
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Posted:Apr 9, 2023 5:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2023 6:20 pm 8083 Views
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We all have to have a balance in life.
I think there are some other questions behind
this question too: Aren’t fairness and equality
in relationships much more sensible? Shouldn’t
every decision be made mutually? Why would
anyone want to submit to the will of another?
Here’s a simple metaphor for understanding the
value of D/s: getting into a vehicle where one
person drives.
Why would anyone want to follow? Because they
trust the driver to take them on a mutually desirable
journey. It’s done for the benefit of both.
Balance in a BDSM based relationship isn't always
fair or equal but it must nurture the darkest corners
of your soul.
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Eyes Wide Open (reply)
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Posted:Apr 4, 2023 2:02 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2023 3:28 pm 9229 Views
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there is the novice Dominant themselves that have not learned the proper way to care for a submissive.
Going into a "relationship" with your eyes
wide open is common sense rather than
something particular to BDSM.
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Public display of the Lifestyle [reply]
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Posted:Mar 30, 2023 7:06 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2023 8:50 am 10061 Views
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Many vanilla folks are appalled by what they see during these public displays and feel, and legally do, have the right not to be exposed to certain BDSM things in public places.
The legal rights of public exposure
to acts considered illegal are controlled
by municipal, state and federal laws
regarding indecent acts.
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Some history of bdsm (reply)
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Posted:Mar 30, 2023 8:42 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2023 8:59 pm 10154 Views
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Many in the Community think that BDSM began with the gay leather Community after World War II.
Fact is, you have no idea what many
in the community think.
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Tinker Belle and Fairy Dust . .
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Posted:Mar 30, 2023 4:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2023 8:35 am 10105 Views
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Gov. Ron DeSantis' move to take over
Walt Disney World's governing board
in Florida may have backfired due to
a prior obscure agreement that new
governor-appointed board members
say stripped them of their power.
If desantis can't handle tinker belle an
fairy dust do you really think he can
handle the complexities of the u.s. gov't??
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Tinker Belle and Fairy Dust . .
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Posted:Mar 30, 2023 4:36 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 9:14 pm 9303 Views
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Gov. Ron DeSantis' move to take over
Walt Disney World's governing board
in Florida may have backfired due to
a prior obscure agreement that new
governor-appointed board members
say stripped them of their power.
If desantis can't handle tinker belle an
fairy dust do you really think he can
handle the complexities of the u.s. gov't??
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It's all about sex (reply)
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Posted:Mar 27, 2023 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2023 11:57 am 10210 Views
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Sex is not what the BDSM lifestyle is about.
The dictionary definition of
BDSM is that it is a type of
sexual activity/behavior.
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