Toys and multiple partners (reply)
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Posted:Apr 23, 2023 2:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2023 2:12 pm 9605 Views
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Your blog failed to suggest the
most obvious and safest solution.
If you're active with groups an
different people regularly require
everyone provide a negative recent
test result.
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A little Honesty and a repost for the day. {reply}
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Posted:Apr 19, 2023 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2023 6:55 am 9860 Views
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One mistake many people make when first entering the lifestyle, is relying on one person to show them the way or one book or one website.
Knowledge is an illusion . .
Don't let the noise of other's opinions
drown out your own inner voice.
And most important, have the
courage to follow your heart and
intuition. They somehow already
know what you want to become.
Everything else, is secondary.
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The Silent Treatment (reply)
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Posted:Apr 18, 2023 3:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2023 9:55 pm 9374 Views
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By using the silent treatment, the Dominant is cutting off all support for the submissive.
Time out is a very effective discipline
for and submissives.
It is also one of the 16 BDSM punishments.
Disciplining a submissive isn't manipulation,
it is training their mind and their spirit
to follow the way of the dynamic they have
chosen.
Sometimes the least painful punishment is
the most effective. Particularly when dealing
with a submissive with a high pain tolerance
that thrives on pain. A set amount of time out
can be very impactful in teaching a lesson.
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Who makes the rules? (reply)
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Posted:Apr 17, 2023 1:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2023 7:08 am 8488 Views
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A Dominant can’t just say, “Do as I say. I make the rules. You obey.”
Actually ron, they can. Your rules end at
your front door. We are all adults here.
There is a distinction to be made between
whether there is a right to do something
and whether it is right to do it.
Following others "rules" ends at age eighteen
and get even wider at age 21.
There is no right or wrong . . just consequences.
Except, of course for laws.
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ABUSE of POWER? (reply)
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Posted:Apr 16, 2023 7:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2023 7:39 am 8544 Views
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His disclosure failures are a
breach of ethics, not an abuse
of power. Not excusing himself
from hearings on Jan. 6th while
his wife was a person of interest
in the investigation.
Thomas' ethical failings shift to
illegal behavior when evidence
of his intent to deceive the pubic
for more than 13 years.
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Wondering
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Posted:Apr 15, 2023 1:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2023 10:28 am 8127 Views
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When I'm sitting at a red light
and I look over and the person
in the car next to me is wearing
a mask, alone in their car.
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Why should a submissive submit? (reply)
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Posted:Apr 14, 2023 1:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2023 6:23 am 7894 Views
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We don't choose this way, off the beaten
path . . It chooses us. The reason we walk
into the abyss is simple, we all seek intimacy.
How dark, taboo, forbidden depends on the
calling in your soul.
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Imagination (reply)
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Posted:Apr 13, 2023 5:37 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2023 6:48 pm 7733 Views
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Imagination can work both ways in a BDSM dynamic. It can be good and it can be bad.
Don't confuse stupidity as
bad imagination.
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Balance (reply)
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Posted:Apr 9, 2023 5:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2023 6:20 pm 7986 Views
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We all have to have a balance in life.
I think there are some other questions behind
this question too: Aren’t fairness and equality
in relationships much more sensible? Shouldn’t
every decision be made mutually? Why would
anyone want to submit to the will of another?
Here’s a simple metaphor for understanding the
value of D/s: getting into a vehicle where one
person drives.
Why would anyone want to follow? Because they
trust the driver to take them on a mutually desirable
journey. It’s done for the benefit of both.
Balance in a BDSM based relationship isn't always
fair or equal but it must nurture the darkest corners
of your soul.
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